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I always kept a bit of stubble as it offset my baby face and give me a more masculine look. And used to show off my chest hair for the same reason (and a lot of women over the years have commented how it was a turn on how hairy I am). But yes I can go cleanshaven and trim the chest hair so the...

I hit 40 this summer. I have a bit of a baby face which gives me a bit of a youthful look and I eat healthy and don't drink too much and exercise. But I have quite a few white hairs on my chest and my beard along with some expression lines and weathering on my face and I don't have the masculine...

There is a definite tapering off. There aren't many good options in your age range. Either women are well past their prime or they are incredibly high maintenance and picky. And while it is possible to date younger women it isn't easy unless you have a lot of money or are very good looking or...

The problem is that men fall in love with their eyes so you're probably only going to catch feelings for beautiful women. But you can very enjoyable sex with an ordinary looking woman who is slutty/naughty, has a good body, and is horny. And sex with the most attractive women can often...

I imagine that exchange of bodily fluids probably does signal to your body and brain that you're getting laid and might therefore spike your testosterone more and release more happy chemicals etc. But of course the STD and pregnancy risk needs to be taken into account.

I think there is a balance. You don't want to be a clown who is obviously trying too hard to entertain her and make her laugh. And if she is too comfortable and having too much fun it will kill some of the sexual tension. But if you are too serious then she might get bored or uncomfortable. I...

Even average looking girls get hundreds of matches a day. And the problem is that the longer a woman has been on an app the less effort she is likely to put in. OLD apps worked better when they were a novelty and there was a regular influx of new users joining who would be a lot more active in...

Out of the blue got a text from her: "Sorry. It's been bit of a rollercoaster the last few weeks. My phone got aggressively stolen and I've moved flats. Hope you are doing well" Not sure why she felt the need to send this. It was over two weeks since my last text which she ignored.

I've found with bad relationships it is the drama that sucks you in and keeps you in them. Crazy women are never boring. And because they are a nightmare most of the time the rare times when they aren't it can feel so good in contrast that you can romanticize and idealize the relationship and it...

Italian guys will aggressively approach tourists and outsiders. Partly this is because they aren't brainwashed to be ashamed of their natural desires. Partly it is because local women aren't easy especially in smaller towns/villages in the South. So if a woman on holiday wants some fun it is...

I think this happens in rare circumstances where a man has achieved very high status e.g. celebrity, sports star, big man on campus, super rich guy etc. Or alternatively when a man has a much higher status/looks/money than a woman and she is confident and determined enough to make the running...

Yeah it is good advice. I got sloppy because I forgot that women can be strokers and fake high interest which she probably did on the first date and to a lesser extent the second date. I should really be looking at consistent high interest and good behaviour over a period of time before...

Maybe she’s young and a recent graduate who’s only recently moved to London so probably overstretching herself. But there’s no real enthusiasm in her responses and it’s hard to be less non commital than perhaps next week and like you said I’m clearly not a priority so can’t see this going anywhere

Oh and other thing that is weird her last seen status on WhatsApp only seems to update once a day. That seems implausible as most girls are glued to their phone. So perhaps she is screening texts and has a lot of men on the go

Back from my holiday so I asked her out Friday night to a jazz gig. Bizarrely she then replied to my previous messages using text quoting saying the holiday photos looked great and was looking forward to hearing all about it Then replied to the latest text saying it sounded good but she had...

Yeah. The old Doc Love advice was to only use the phone to arrange dates and disappear otherwise. That would have spared me a lot of trouble with this girl. Although most girls do like to text between dates as it makes them feel connected and moves things along and as they are texting lots of...

Very good point. I was enjoying the affection and reciprocating it instead of getting sexual. Similarly I let her lead the text conversation and mirrored her conversational style when I should have taken advantage of the fact I was on holiday to simply wait until I was back before responding. So...

Yeah she hasn't texted me in over a week but I am sure during that period there have been other guys she has been texting. It is quite common on dating apps for girls to suddenly stop responding because they aren't feeling the conversation or someone else comes along that gets their attention...

I'm in my mid 30s. My holiday plans got in the way a bit. So it was a case of leaving it at one date and seeing her when I got back or squeezing in a midweek date. So we had the first date Sunday 25th August (it was a bank holiday the next day) and then the second date Wednesday 28th August...

I've had a few dates with a younger girl (early 20s). 1st date went very well. We arranged to meet for drinks and she made it clear she wanted to continue the date and was pretty touchy feely, holding my hand, linking arms with me and cosying up to me and when I leant in to kiss her goodnight...