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I hit up this beautiful girl I had 4 dates with last summer. 3rd date was very promising we went for dinner then an outdoor free concert then making out and heavy petting in the park and since then she was blowing up my phone. But 4th date she inexplicably cooled off and afterwards said dating...

I think it can work if you are best friends as well as lovers and you're both highly motivated to raise kids together as a team and work well together. But even in the best marriages your sex life will dry up especially after the kids come and there will be arguments and domesticity which makes...

Yeah I don't think it is realistic. What you might be able to find is a woman in her mid to late 30s who despite being single and independent has retained some femininity and is relationship oriented and hasn't been through the serial dating treadmill that leaves women with a high body count...

I can see the advantages. Price of alcohol has gone up a lot since the pandemic and if you are dating regularly it can be an expense. And obviously there are good health reasons and for some people alcohol doesn't agree with them. Quite a lot of women would have a problem with it: a) they...

Occasionally I come across attractive women relatively fresh off the boat from more traditional dating cultures e.g. middle east/latin america who never offer to split bills, never initiate texts or overtly show interest while at the same time complaining if they perceive a man of not showing...

Thanks for the comments. Yeah could be I am choosing too public venues or venues that are not dim/dark enough or late enough at night that it segues neatly to saying "let's go back to mine". I know quite a few girls dislike PDAs and feel uncomfortable or say that it is for teenagers. And yeah...

My modus operandi since my early 20s (I'm mid 30s now) has been to be flirty, physically escalate fast and get girls into bed as soon as possible. But when I reflect back on the women I've dated and gone out for the most part they've been desperate/easy/needy/nymphos and generally low quality. I...

I'm in my mid 30s. I've developed a certain knack for sleeping with women that are interested in me. But it hardly seems worth it any more. With most women any sex appeal is heavily front loaded i.e. clothes, make up etc. When the clothes come off and make up disappears you realize most women...

I have quite a nice set up with this girl I have been seeing for around 4 months. She is very sweet and affectionate. She gets jealous if I mention other girls but doesn't really keep tabs on me so I can date other girls easily. We went on a holiday together for about five days this summer and...

I have dated two virgins in their early 30s. Both were keen to just get it out of the way. I didn't really want the hassle. But kept in touch with one and after sleeping with one guy she is now experimenting sexually as much as she can and is sex obsessed. The other one was also sex obsessed and...

I am in my mid 30s and only seem to want it once or twice a week. This is OK for casual dating but occasionally I do run into nymphos who want it several times a night or want weekend sex marathons and in a relationship it can be a bit of a problem. I have had a full medical workup. Nothing...

Yeah and girls have this stupid guilt thing where they feel the need to warn a guy or confess before they do something they know he won't like whereas a guy would have the sense to simply keep quiet on the basis that what she doesn't know weren't hurt her and in any case exclusivity was not...

I'm really not clear what she thinks will disappoint me. From the context it definitely seems like she is saying she can't promise she won't sleep with anyone else and therefore won't necessarily be tight when she comes back end of the summer. But it just seems like a horrible way to say it...

She's 30 and I'm 35!

Yeah we were sexting a bit and it got a bit weird HER: I am SO wet HER: Every day I want you to f me more and more… ME: I'm imagining how tight you must be ... HER: I hope I won’t disappoint you ME: You never disappoint me HER: It’s a bit hard not to disappoint you these days… ME: What do...

I have noticed as I started dating more attractive and slightly older women (30s +) that they are a lot higher maintenance. I have a stressful and often boring job in finance and I am seriously considering switching to teaching for a better work-life balance and more of a vocation. But I live...

Yeah I didn't admit to anything either way. She sent me a bikini photo in the afternoon and I said she looked hot. And she replied "Hotter than the girl you went out with last night". So I said "You are the hottest girl I know!" and she laughed and said "I knew you were going to say that. But if...

She texted me some meme last night about the UK heatwave which I ignored at the time as I was on a date and replied next morning. Next morning she said "First time I texted you last night and you didn't respond...." I said "Sorry was busy how have you been?" we talked a bit she sent a few...

If you are above average in looks and live in a major metropolitan centre you should be able to sleep with average looking and occasionally good looking women in their 30s. It really is not much of an achievement if you are good at playing the numbers game and learn to be sexually aggressive to...

Thanks. Please elaborate on catch and release. I’m dating other girls and playing it cool when she tries to make me jealous but my texting game is a bit weak so need a bit of guidance there. Like I said she photobombs me in the afternoon with holiday photos then later in the evening she waits...