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Cosmo article was interesting. Shocking the deterioration in that girl. Luckily the girl I am dating is not a "travel enthusiast" on a solo tour where she can sleep with whoever she wants with no social consequences but going home for the summer to spend time with her parents, her friends and so...

Yeah I am being realistic and obviously at the very least she is getting attention from and flirting with other guys and she'll hook up if she meets anyone she likes. She is saying stuff like she misses me, wishes I was there, and teasing the idea of going on holiday together but I guess it is...

I've been casually dating this girl for 2 months or so. It started off pretty casual just hooking up but she quickly became a lot more affectionate, started saying how much she liked me etc and suggesting proper dates. I went along with is because she is good company and cute and sweet and so...

I think the real issue is that modern women (and especially hot women with a lot of options) get easily dissatisfied in relationships. and also do not easily develop feelings for a man. So he can keep her around so long as he does everything right but eventually he will screw up or she will...

Matched with a young girl (23) on bumble. I'm in my mid 30s. I was hanging around central london swiping right and left and we matched. I asked what she was up to she said she was drinking alone in a ****tail bar and was very sad. Something about her friends ditching her or something. She then...

Probably means nothing but last few days after a week of no contact following my “no worries enjoy your summer” knee jerk response she has started viewing my WhatsApp status updates. We have been in touch almost two months and cannot recall her doing so before.

Yeah definitely not worth admitting the lie early on when they are in a mode where they are looking for red flags and reasons to disqualify a man as a potential mate. But yeah if you can get her to fall in love with you and she is not structured and understands the logic for your lie then you...

I'm getting a bit disillusioned with my career in accountancy. I'm hitting 38 this year. I have tried to move into more interesting areas within finance with no real success and I cannot see myself being an accountant for the next 5,10, 20 years. I don't plan to have a family. So I do sometimes...

I think lying about your age is necessary on the online dating apps to consistently get matches with younger women. But no easy way to confess. Most women as soon as they catch you in a lie see it as a red flag and even if you try to explain that you are just getting around the algorithm they...

In most major metropolitan cities there are lots of attractive single childless women in their early 30s. You can find ones from good universities who grew up in the country so you don't have the cultural misunderstandings to worry about and have good jobs without being alpha female career...

Thanks guys. Should have realized it was a red flag she brought up on her ex boyfriend on three separate occasions. Also clearly missed a potential opportunity to sleep with her on the third date. Sounds like best to delete the number. She will either get back with the ex or move on to...

I think the ex could be part of it. Her version was that he wouldn't stop texting her and it was very annoying. So I kinda assumed the guy was needy and not a threat. But strange to mention him on the first date and then again shortly before our final date and she had her phone on the table at...

Makeout session didn't do too much harm. After it she warmed up considerably texting me every morning, responding a lot more quickly to texts, saying she missed me, was excited to see me again etc. Not sure what exactly went wrong on our last date. She started warmly enough with a nice hug and...

Yeah there is an ex boyfriend in the picture. She broke up with him a few months ago. The excuse she gave is he didn't make her a priority and he has been texting her and she expressed frustration about this on our first date saying she did not want any contact but said thankfully she hasn't...

I've been going on some dates with this girl over the last month. She has a lot going on with a new job, trying to move flat, holiday plans etc. and also has some health problems that make her tired. First few dates weren't great she seemed tired and distracted and uncomfortable with shifty eye...

Most attractive professionals in big cities are on dating apps these days. And most seem to be serial daters. My reason for wanting a relationship is that it is nice to feel a connection and have feelings for someone. Dating and sleeping with different women is fun but it gets a bit soulless...

I am in my mid 30s and would like a relationship. But I have started to realize that when it comes to relationships women in their late 20s/early 30s are incredibly picky. Of course they like to peddle the myth that guys are just after fun and sex and they all say on their dating ads they are...

I've had a few dates with this girl and she seems keen....too keen. She's talking a lot about future activities....even saying she was going skiing end of the month and did I want to join her (I said that sounds nice let's see and luckily she didn't press further). She's showing a lot of...

Hey guys Has anyone had any success with NC after a STR? I was with this girl for 4 months or so. Things went OK the first 3 months. She wasn't super into me but we were spending a lot of time together, she was texting me a lot and we were having regular sex. Then I made the mistake of...

I've had mild-moderate depression most of my life but avoided antidepressants in part because of the sexual side effects but also because a lot of studies say they are no more effective than placebo and I am also worried that once you start taking it is difficult to come off them and when you do...