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    What does this mean and how do I change?

    thanks for the posts everyone. It's good to hear other people experiencing self reflections also. I think the reason I'm hardest on myself in these self reflections is because I don't see these people that much anymore. I have a great time but then I don't know when I'm going to see them...
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    What does this mean and how do I change?

    true....but sometimes an action or conversation I have with someone does change the way I view them. Especially if there is a girl I like and she does something extremely slutty or just starts hitting on every single guy I tend to look down on her more. I mean the thing is as much as I...
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    What does this mean and how do I change?

    I'm not talking about random strangers. I'm talking about good friends I've been with. But either way when you first meet someone don't you usually have a first impression? Whether you think she's good looking, cool, fun to be with
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    What does this mean and how do I change?

    when I'm in the moment of a party or hanging out with friends I am usually confident and pretty social. But whenever the party is over and I head back home I look in the mirror first thing and find imperfections with the way I look negating the fun time I had. Also, whenever I come back from a...
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    summer social life

    I'm having a real hard time just having fun this summer. I just got off my first year in college and was used to going out every weekend, partying, and drinking. Now that I'm back home for the summer living with my parents I've only been to 1 party this summer (and the cops showed up - but...
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    Body Image - the HIGHS and LOWS

    I could definitely use the gym every so often, but the gym isn't the problem. It's just really frustrating because I look at myself sometimes and think I like super hot (yeah, I know that's ****y) and then other times I look at myself and like don't want to go out in public because I might run...
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    Body Image - the HIGHS and LOWS

    I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but I'm a pretty attractive guy who has gone through and still going through a mild case of acne and pimples (mostly on my nose). My self esteem was really shot in high school because of this, along with social cliques. Anyways, I have a huge...
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    summer plans

    I'll be finished with my freshman year in college in a week or two. However, this summer I was planning on getting an internship, but was rejected from every single letter of response so far. I have to take a summer class because I dropped a class this past semester since I was almost failing...
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    Gunman kills 21 on Virginia Tech campus

    why does society even need guns? I say guns should only be handed out to the military and can be "checked" out for a limited amount of time to go hunting every now and then. Besides these two scenarios, why else would one need a gun? Everyone says you need a gun to protect yourself and that...
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    self body image/esteem issues

    So I'm a pretty good looking guy who has a lot of self image issues. Some days I'll look at myself in the mirror and think I look really hot, while other days I can't stand howI look. Anways, what my problem is in particular is the way people judge me. Girls see me, as one put it, "too...
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    Forgot how to get rid of pimples

    don't pop it!! it can scar your face. If anything lightly touch it and let the puss ooze out on its own, don't force it. I usually wash my face w/ a 2% salicylic acid wash and then apply clearasil (benzyl 5%) to the pimple.
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    Who else loves Asians?

    I just like white and asian pretty much. I'm not really into latinas, blacks, or indians at all
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    partial "blackout" unsure of how I ended up making out with girl

    I do know her, so I feel like it'll be too awkward if I have to ask her directly. Plus, I'm not sure how much she remembers that night so if I ask her and she remembers clearly I'll feel bad that it was kind of a blur.
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    First time at a club cool but...

    that's why I go to clubs with both my guy and girl friends. The club is a hard place to get to know strangers.
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    partial "blackout" unsure of how I ended up making out with girl

    The other night my friends from high school were on their college sprink break and decided to throw a party. I had just found out earlier that day I failed a physics midterm and was therefore eager to get wasted. I started out the night drinking gradually, but when I realized I wasn't getting...
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