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This is true, the best boxers have always come from the poorest socio-demographic groups i.e. irish / italian / jewish in the first part of the 20th century, and the african americans from the 1920s. The ex-Soviet bloc is only dominating the heavyweight division now, not boxing per se. Two...

Listen to what the guys say to you on here, its all good advice. You sound very depressed, my advice to you is get professional help - counselling or therapy, and maybe anti-depressant. It is impossible to start solving your various problems whilst your in the pits of depression, and...

I got hobbies, friends and an active social life. I dont lead a boring life, I still find it hard to trust people and talk much about myself. Talking about hobbies are easy, most of mine are sports related and going out with friends for beer, not too interesting to most women imo

Im pretty shy with new people in particular, so yes I find it hard to get to know ppl. I can hold conversations with ppl, but I suppose I dont elaborate on things, like a lot of guys. Women in the UK are more talkative general than guys. And I didnt meet the woman online either. We are still...

Because Im fairly reserved with new people in general. Also, I didnt have similar information to divulge cos I havent been divorced, had particularly messy relationships, and havent got much family. I dont think you ought to show ur whole hand early on in any case, im worried im too quiet on...

Francisco, it was her saying to me that she hardly knows me, not vice versa. She was confiding loads of stuff in me about her marriage break up and family stuff. I couldnt give back much about me in return

Looking for a bit of advice on here. I met a hot woman on Sat night at a Christmas party, things went well, had a dance, long chat and got her number at the end of the night. So far so good. I then went out with her for a meal Weds night, things went ok, but she was telling me loads of stuff...

The model is too simplistic, at least in the worldly wider sense that categorizes everyone as wolves and sheep. A lot of people are somewhere between the two - how many people are hardened, predatory criminals (i.e. the wolves) and how many are at the other end of the spectrum and defenceless...

Is this pulling in malls an American thing? Over here in the UK its not a done thing, unless youre about 13 or 14. How old can you get away with it in the States?

I identify with this feeling about purpose. I'm in a similar boat, good job, hobbies, play lots of sport, have a busy social life. I consider myself to be proactive in most areas..........but, I dont feel like my life has any real purpose or direction. I just get by, I generally succeed, but...

I made this post last night on a bit of a downer. Thanks for the advice guys, good to see others taking a more positive attitude than me. I went on a double date last week, my friend and his g/f, and a woman he works with. My date was a bit of a minger, but his lady is a real cutie who I really...

Have any of you guys on here ever decided that chasing after women just isnt worth all the **** and just given up? If so, what happened?

Someone he met in a bar who fancied him a lot but didnt know he lived with his parents at first may overlook it. A woman who lives with her parents may overlook it. A woman he got to know at work who really liked him might overlook it. Having said that, it would put a lot of women off, i realise...

How is it? Cos the guy lives with his parents this doesnt mean that a woman is gonna have to take responsibility for the parents as well. A lot of women would blow him out straight away for living with his parents but some might not, it all depends on the guy. Does he live at home cos hes got...

So what if the guy lives at home when he's 38, if its right for him then he should just stuff what everybody else thinks. Its true that some women would reject him on these grounds, but more genuine women wouldnt. Everyones an individual, and should please themselves how they live their lives as...

Rollo, brilliant post mate, possibly the most useful I've ever read on this site!

I wondered if any of you guys had the same problem or had any advice? Most of the time when I meet women, I quite quickly get put into the dreaded friendzone. Its like "youre a nice guy, I'd love to be your friend". This includes women I've met on the net (particularly) and also women at work...

Good work man, not textbook but you got the kiss. Its best not to ask for a kiss, try looking into the girls eyes when you are sat close, if they move in they wanna snog!

I think youre right. A lot of guys think theyve got to get hitched, especially low confidence guys. The guy your talkin about is probably wary of gold diggers. And your right about gettin hitched before youre 30, its stupid

Its never too late to change, most of the plans you have seem sound to me, i wish you luck. My advice would be to try and make a few friends, male or female to try and give you some support and to build your social skills up. Im not sure about all this "boot camp stuff in the mall". Is this an...