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How do you guys usually handle a flake? I'm on the fence about jumping in their sh!t over it or just letting it go and moving on. Lately this friend of mine has been flaking majorly. Last week she called me to make plans, then flaked. Then I called her, we made plans, she flaked again...

This is an old thread but I felt like it needed to be bumped. Some of the best advice for any guy that's had a "friendgirl" go strange on him.

Just wondering what excuses you guys have come across when you've been flaked on. I was supposed to go out with this girl a couple of weeks ago but she texts me with the excuse that she is having a really heavy flow day :nervous: and was going to lay down cuz she felt like crap. Anyone...

thanks for the replies. As for me, I've decided to move on. I do have other women in my life, ones that are much more available than this one. As such, this is the last time I'm posting in this thread. Thanks again for the advice guys.

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About the open relationship thing, I think Penkitten is right. Everytime me and this girl talk about dating we always mention that we wouldn't cheat but that we would prefer to be able to hang out with other people if we wanted to. But like I said earlier, she cancels on dates way too...

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Count Pooku lol

Update: So I catch her online after not having talked to her in two months and she's just chatting about things that have happened lately. She asks me if I want to go to New Orleans with her next year. Then she tells me about how this guy asked her out and about how she just wasn't into him...

Thanks Onpoint. As for the "Meaningful Open Relationship", I think she wanted to actually date and just changed her story up so not to scare me away at the time. Then she thought she was moving away and didn't say anything else about it and I didn't pursue cuz I didn't want an LDR. That...

Update: She'll show up online every once in awhile when I'm logged on. She usually stays invisible but will undo it whenever I'm on. Turns out she isn't moving away now. I feel resentment and anger towards her when we talk now. Mainly because I was confused about the total drop off we...

Update: She asks me to go to Florida with her. We go, we have fun. The last day of the trip she is talking about doing something that weekend. The night we are supposed to hang out she cancels on yahoo with an IM saying "Can't do anything". I run into her mom the same night and I...

I've been doing this routine for about 3 months and while I have seen gains I'm not getting the results I want. I'm 5'9 167lbs, I'm not scrawny but I could be bigger and I just have some chub in the usual trouble spots around the waist. I'm not looking to get huge but I'd like to drop this fat...

I've been hanging with this girl for about a year now. We both agreed we didn't like relationships and decided to just be "buddies". And use each other for sex. Some info on her. Good looking, smart, funny, and somewhat of a loner. She has a few friends but I've only met one, of which we...

Good post. I learned this the hard way a long time ago. I'd reel the girls in cuz I didn't care, but when they showed interest I would freeze up. Personally, now I act like however I want around a girl, and if she don't like it she can eat it.

I understand your approach man, and thanks for the advice. I'm normally cool and calm and she has never seen me mad. I felt the mad approach would be best because I was going for shock and effect.