Weird loner girl.
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Here's the thing. If you could handle just seeing her once in a while, and not get upset when she flakes, and have no expectations, and not worry about when you will see her again...keep doing what you are doing.
But, obviously, with as much time as you think about her, talk about her, write about her here, it DOES BOTHER YOU that she isn't more available to you. You would like more, but for whatever reason right now she doesn't.
You have one shot, and its a win win situation. Quit her cold turkey. No more getting online and talking to her. No more emails. No more phone calls or texts. No more going out with her and hanging out. Give that a couple of months. IF she contacts you asking you out, say you are busy. Not only will this make her realize what she is losing IF she really likes you, but it will also enable you to start moving on, date other people, and stop thinking about her. If after that she really wants to be with you, trust me she will make it abundantly clear to you, and you can go from there.
Good luck!
But, obviously, with as much time as you think about her, talk about her, write about her here, it DOES BOTHER YOU that she isn't more available to you. You would like more, but for whatever reason right now she doesn't.
You have one shot, and its a win win situation. Quit her cold turkey. No more getting online and talking to her. No more emails. No more phone calls or texts. No more going out with her and hanging out. Give that a couple of months. IF she contacts you asking you out, say you are busy. Not only will this make her realize what she is losing IF she really likes you, but it will also enable you to start moving on, date other people, and stop thinking about her. If after that she really wants to be with you, trust me she will make it abundantly clear to you, and you can go from there.
Good luck!
I got news for you: She ain't your fvck buddy because fvck buddies well... they fvck, and you haven't.jmeredi said:I'll get an occasional BJ from her but we have never slept together
This girl has low interest in you and the reason she hasn't told you to fvck off out of her life is because she's got issues and is currently not meeting other guys. Having been in a situation like this before myself, i can tell you two things that most likely are going to happen:
1) You will never fvck her - she will tease you with her t1ts and BJ to keep you interested but you won't get to fvck her because she doesn't have real desire for you.
2) If she is a half decent looking girl, she will eventually meet someone new. When she digs her claws into this man, she will dissapear so fast out of your life you won't even know it. That is when its going to hurt you the most, when you realise you wasted so much time and energy over this basketcase and you have nothing to show for.
Your best solution is to go for other women and slowly try to push her out of your life. Maybe if she sees that you have other options and start to give less damn about her, that she might actually put out (but will you really care if you had other women in your life?).
thanks for the replies.
As for me, I've decided to move on. I do have other women in my life, ones that are much more available than this one.
As such, this is the last time I'm posting in this thread.
Thanks again for the advice guys.
As for me, I've decided to move on. I do have other women in my life, ones that are much more available than this one.
As such, this is the last time I'm posting in this thread.
Thanks again for the advice guys.