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What does seing yourself as a 12 out of 10 give you apart from confidence? What makes that frame exceptional? :confused:

Isn't HB1-4 a contradiction? Last time I looked HB stood for Hot Babe ...

Yeah ... you shouldn't care about that. Just show confidence. Your problem is not the behaviour of others. It is your inner game. Work on your attitude. You hide and don't trust people!? You think like a victim ... that makes you a perfect victim for them. I used to think: "I don't...

Probably your brain just doesn't work as it should any more. Well ... I think I will always have to take pills. They cost money ... but they don't have negative effects on the body (you won't get addicted) and they might help. Maybe you can take them for a while and if they help you can...

I do believe in medication ... but I hate doctors. I too couldn't concentrate ... it took me 5 seconds to come up with an answer even to the simplest questions. One doctor said that the muscles of one of my eyes are weaker than the others. Apparently that means that it takes longer to...

Have you read the thread by Gunwitch? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286 There is a part about what girls you can easily get, which you can get from time to time ... if you show a certain amount of effort. Let's say you are 6 in looks and show 7 effort ... you'll...

I think most people have problems like that which drag them down. For me it was having to wear glasses first ... I think I dealt with that pretty well. Then I got braces. That really hurt my confidence. Then some people made fun of me because I`m REALLY skinny. I am 24 and so far there...

What situation would that be? You'd both lose. Worst attitude ever. I'm kinda glad I don't know the real-life you. I don't like the don't take any sh*t attitude. Never expect more respect than YOU show. You could show some respect and ask her what that look she gave you was all about.

The replies here are great. I especially like the "demand and offer" POV. How about designing a list with prizes? (Serious expression when you show it, smile after their reaction, serious again, saying "Crap ... that one was for free") Smile (each): 25cent Making out (1...

Cool Hellboy. That reply to CraigMack needed to be written. :) skinnydart: What you wrote doesn't sound like such a bad situation. When I was 18 (about 6 years ago) I fell into a big hole. I wasn't even bored. I had no energy. I'd understand that you are depressed if you didn't find any...

I'm working on a written master-plan now. Thanks for the advice. Guess the theory of "letting go or trying harder" will play an important role there. I have the feeling I'm holding on to something that I should dump immediately. I think road-blocks are an interesting related topic. They...

No ... escaping doesn't work like that. You need to analyze the situation and change it. If you just move away it won't be different there because you will be the same. After school I started fresh two times and always ended up in the same situation. People didn't see me as a loser because I...

Really like the replies here. Good post Gman. -HPNOTIQ-: It is not that easy during a depression. What you do have is meaningless then. If anybody tells me to think positive then I get really pissed. I don't understand that myself. All the thoughts you have about depressions when you...

Yeah ... it is probably a good idea to set priorities like that. Dunno ... I like art, music and sports. But what if what you really enjoy is not what you are good at? The one thing I enjoy like nothing else is soccer. I guess I'm mediocre at best. Another half-assed passion is art. I...

Seems like bragging to me. :eek: I guess I'd have to go a lot slower to have the feeling that I still have control over .... dunno ... everything. Might that be a/the problem? Approaching girls 7 days a week? ... wow.

I just read the first post ... and I think it's what a lot of people need to hear. But it might be bad advice for people who already take school seriously. There are some cases where studying simply doesn't help. I wasted a lot of energy on battles that I could not win. I took school a lot...

It sounds like a bad case of oneitis ... maybe tell more about the situation if you think that is not the case. How many people do you know? It that your only option? Do you talk with that girl or only about her? Why can't she tell you directly what your friend tells you? It doesn't sound...

Sounds pretty good. But the opposite isn't pretending you don't give a shyt. It sounds as if you did the right thing though. You watched other people. That would have been my advice as well. Observe and maybe even judge others ... Maybe write a list with things to look out for. Stuff like...

I can relate ... but not sure if I can help. Judging from what you wrote you either don't get the DJ thing or this is a fake post though. WTF? It is hard to say anything without knowing the whole situation ... just some thoughts: I too didn't get a lot of respect from the guys around...

Where do you think you stand? Is your attitude ok? What about your self-esteem? Listening properly is a lot more important than being able to talk non-stop. I know a lot of natural entertainers and most people don't like them because they always talk and never listen. Not all girls like to...