Being disrespected hard by a girl

[bobby87]

Ok, theres this girl where we both had a thing for eachother for nearly 6 months, thing is i had a girlfriend so it wasnt going to go anywhere.

Anyway i broke up with my gf a few weeks ago and decided i might as well move on to her now. But for some reason all interest she had for me dissapeared, maybe coz i played about with her so long.

Ok heres the part where she disrespected me HARD! I was looking at her (she was looking particularly hot that day). Now she then caught me looking at her and gave me that look where she snared her nose and pouted her lips upwards (like i was some kind of sh1t and she cant believe she actually liked me or something). That caught me completly out the blue and i didnt even DO anything back. If you knew me, i just dont take sh1t like that, so that was very unlike me.

I feel so pissed off right now though. This happened yesterday. Im definitly going to let her have a taste of her own medicine. Id just like to know which way would it be right to get her back tomorrow (i see her tomorrow at college). Im thinking of giving that look she gave to me or would it be wise to just forget it. Man im so pissed off, i feel like ive been owned! But by a girl!! I dont mind that much if its a dude but a girl! Im very bitter at the moment, nobody looks at me like that.

So what should i do in this situation?

 

[00Kevin]

I would turn it around on her and tease her about how sexy she is.

I would even play games with her just for the fun of it.

Tell her that even though you have other girls, you still think about fu-cking her. that will really set her off and she won't know how to deal with it.

 

[Delta Male]

Dude, think about your situation for a minute...your pissed because a girl gave you a certain look, and didn't even say anything!?!?!

You're blowing this whole thing way out of proportion. You haven't actually been owned, its only in your own mind and by your own negative thoughts that you have been owned.

Just chill, its only a look. Bust on her for making such a weird/funny look. Your frame should be that its a weird look that she does, not that you're a weird person who deserves that look. By all means don't confront her seriously or brag to her about how you have other girls...that'll just show her how much she got to you.

-Dan

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[bobby87]

dude i know what i saw! she gave me that 'queen b' look, like shes the sh1t or something. This was disrespect of the highest order. Also she seems to got up herself a bit as she does have i confess, better looking boys after her. So im adding this together and seeing that she gave me the look to say 'hey i got better fish in the sea, i cant believe i was ever after u'

So fuk this! Im going to give her the same look but im going to look down at her body coz she has a bit of a biggish body. She started it, im going to finish it. Im going to leave as the winner, thats for sure.

 

[spukee]

A) You don't string a girl along for 6 months, then expect her to be patiently waiting for you when you decide it's time to bail out of your old relationship.

B) Girl doesn't like you anymore - oh no, big fvcking deal. Next her and move on.

Being petty isn't going to get you anywhere.

 

[Good_ol_boy]

Originally posted by bobby87
dude i know what i saw! she gave me that 'queen b' look, like shes the sh1t or something. This was disrespect of the highest order. Also she seems to got up herself a bit as she does have i confess, better looking boys after her. So im adding this together and seeing that she gave me the look to say 'hey i got better fish in the sea, i cant believe i was ever after u'

So fuk this! Im going to give her the same look but im going to look down at her body coz she has a bit of a biggish body. She started it, im going to finish it. Im going to leave as the winner, thats for sure.

Dude, in an earlier post you said something about college?

Your posts strike me as being from someone in the eighth grade. She looked at you and that was "disrespect of the highest order"? What would it be if she said you had a small willey, no nads, and was ugly to boot??

Get over it! Geeez, how sensative!!

 

[yunghova35]

Originally posted by bobby87
Also she seems to got up herself a bit as she does have i confess, better looking boys after her.

So you would like it if the cute boys were after you?

 

[SchuhSohle]

She started it, im going to finish it. Im going to leave as the winner, thats for sure.

What situation would that be? You'd both lose.
Worst attitude ever. I'm kinda glad I don't know the real-life you.

I don't like the don't take any sh*t attitude. Never expect more respect than YOU show.
You could show some respect and ask her what that look she gave you was all about.

 

[bobby87]

Originally posted by SchuhSohle
You could show some respect and ask her what that look she gave you was all about.

You know what, that sounds good, i might just do that. Id like to see her response. And if she plays dumb or anything else, ill just tell her 'not to talk to me ever again'.

 

[saminex]

are you serious??? Are you in college?? Are you certain that look was directed at you. "Im never going to talk to you"!!!! What the hell.....this is reply is about as coherent as this post.

 

[SpeedRunner]

Damn, if its just a look its not a diss. Even if she did diss you, you should never ever take it personally.

 

[bobby87]

Originally posted by SpeedRunner
Damn, if its just a look its not a diss. Even if she did diss you, you should never ever take it personally.

Why not take it personally? Its at me.

 

[cave dweller]

note.....

Hey,

Forget the dumb @ss look.......and play her........

Don't say anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Slip her a note or a card....(that says something like this)

There is a boat race this weekend--Want to go?

or,

There is a new DJ at such snd such club this weekend---Want to go?

Anyway, you get the idea.

Just play her.

cave dweller

 

[bobby87]

I dont know about that. I dont really want to give her an ego boost by asking her out. Theres no chance we will ever end up together after what she did.

Anyway what do you mean by 'play her'?

I know people might think im going overboard but i just always want to have the last laugh. So far shes on top right now coz she disrespected me and i didnt do nothing back. Like eminem said 'if you beef with me, im going to even the score equally'. I wont go as far as to call this beef but still....

 

[geneticperfection]

Originally posted by bobby87
I know people might think im going overboard but i just always want to have the last laugh. So far shes on top right now coz she disrespected me and i didnt do nothing back. Like eminem said 'if you beef with me, im going to even the score equally'. I wont go as far as to call this beef but still....

Are you seriously taking lessons in maturity from Eminem?
Bro, what do you think is more manly: Throwing a temper tantrum, or acting like an adult and letting the other person be a baby?
Whatever works for you man - I think most guys here would recommend you be adult about this and not play games of tit-for-tat. Its fun to be petty, sure, but it isnt the best idea.

 

[thefonz]

I think you need to relax a little B.....girls direspect us all the time, especially when we date them....but unless you like looking like an AFC who doesn't know how to play the game, then by all means just ignore her and don't say anything cus she gave you a 'look'....what you need to do is go up to her say what's up and ask "Why did you give me that look".

I ruined one of the best relationships i had with a great girl cus i suspected she was fooling around with me and i just decided one day that "i'm just not going to talk to her anymore"....hell, if you don't talk to girls they sure as hell won't initiate anything with you. So basically the lesson i got after a year of deep depression and serious self analysis is that i never leave anything to be 'assummed'....either it is or it isn't, go TALK to her about and work it out that way, stop taking the ***** way out....it sucks and it lowers your self-esteem. fonz says BE A MAN

 

[jason86]

Im guessing she gave you that look because you've suddenly stepped up your interest in her after you've broken up with your girl and she might of sensed it and thought to herself 'i aint being second best, im going to show him who i am'.

 

[bobby87]

I know this thread is about a week old but she had been away from college for a couple of days.

So anyway i went up to her couple of days ago and asked her what was with that scowl look she gave me the other week.

She totally played dumb, which i expected. I then told her that nobody looks at me like that, and not to talk to me again until she can explain that look she gave me. She then comes out with 'whateeever like i really want to talk to you anyway' in a icy tone. I finished it with a 'yeh thats why you been hanging on my dik for half a year' and walked off. Her expression when i said that, was priceless.

Im quite happy with how i handled it. I didnt come off like a dik but at the same time i evened the score equally.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by bobby87
Ok, theres this girl where we both had a thing for eachother for nearly 6 months, thing is i had a girlfriend so it wasnt going to go anywhere.

Anyway i broke up with my gf a few weeks ago and decided i might as well move on to her now. But for some reason all interest she had for me dissapeared, maybe coz i played about with her so long.

Ok heres the part where she disrespected me HARD! I was looking at her (she was looking particularly hot that day). Now she then caught me looking at her and gave me that look where she snared her nose and pouted her lips upwards (like i was some kind of sh1t and she cant believe she actually liked me or something). That caught me completly out the blue and i didnt even DO anything back. If you knew me, i just dont take sh1t like that, so that was very unlike me.

I feel so pissed off right now though. This happened yesterday. Im definitly going to let her have a taste of her own medicine. Id just like to know which way would it be right to get her back tomorrow (i see her tomorrow at college). Im thinking of giving that look she gave to me or would it be wise to just forget it. Man im so pissed off, i feel like ive been owned! But by a girl!! I dont mind that much if its a dude but a girl! Im very bitter at the moment, nobody looks at me like that.

So what should i do in this situation?

Are you sure it was done out of disrespect and not a tease??

Either way, smile, shake it off, and continue about what you were doing. Besides, can't you think of a better way to pick up women than to ogle them hungrily?

 

[christz]

what kinda AFC garbage thread is this? man AFC's come out in so many different ways that sometimes they don't even realize it.

dude you can't just go

"WELP i'm not with my g/f anymore lets move onto the girl that i denied 6 months ago"

uhh YEAH OK, lol if this was switched around you'd be all up in this bytch posting about how to "seduce" the girl and how your "kino" and "mind games" aren't working

dude GTFO, and get yourself another girl cuz this one ain't hangin on your dyck, only reason she gave you that "priceless" look was because she was laughing on the inside about how you actually thought she was still on your shyt LOL