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    DJ with no guy friends?

    How do you counter the "so what are you doing out by yourself?" questions?
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    big problem with LOVE

    Take your time to grieve. Throw some **** around, scream, get it out of your system. Try to find some activity that leaves you exhausted, or at least takes your mind off stuff. Going to a gym, getting outdoors, etc. The wisdom in the phrase "the best revenge is a good life", is that you need...
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    Right in My FACE! Just read it to belive it!

    Women like guys who shower them with attention, because it makes them feel special. This usually doesn't translate to wanting to fvck them though. Showering a woman in gifts and compliments only shows that you haven't got anything better to offer (like personality, looks, etc). I wouldn't...
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    Has a chick ever been so blatantly cruel to you as this

    If you start off with a defeatist attitude towards life, where do you think you'll end up?
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    Upbringing has much to do with AFC'ness.

    I'm reminded of the quote from Fight Club "we're a generation of men raised by our mothers"
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    big problem with LOVE

    I'm in a similar situation man. Girl I was into is heading overseas in a few months, and she decided to prematurely cool things off, so that she doesn't spend her time overseas moping (not something I agreed with, but that's what happened). The problem that women have is that they feel that...
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    Depressing night at party

    Perhaps you went there with too many expectations.
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    Upbringing has much to do with AFC'ness.

    I'd also agree to this. I've done a lot of introspection recently, over why I am less of a "man" than what I feel I should be. I looked back at the kind of person my father was, and how he was with my stepmother (who walked all over him). However your history may influence the kind of person...
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    How Do I Stop This ?

    You'll kick yourself when you realise how much time you've wasted pining after this one girl, when you could have been out and about meeting others. You need to make a personal decision to: a) Forget about her b) Move on Not half-hearted, not an "I'm going to have a look around" - but...
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    an AFC move?

    I think the thing is that most women will be used to hearing compliments as opening lines. Therefore, if you want to stand apart from the rest of the pack, try something different.
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    This Is What All You AFCs Look Like After You Make Contact With Your First Girl

    "I know you really like the movie titanic, so... I hope after this you'll give me a call" He really shouldn't have ripped his shirt off. Not to mention him lip-synching a song sung by a woman!
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    The importance of shoes...

    http://www.brando.com.au/ ^- They're an italian shoe brand, not sure what their US/global site is. But the shoes they have are damn fine - but expensive. Just make sure when you get a set of nice shoes you look after 'em. Put some scotchguard or other protective stuff on, and don't run...
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    Roommate situation, advice requested (long)

    Thanks for the replies, helps put stuff into perspective. I've been reading through the dj bible the last few days and it gives some great, useable advice. :) The one-itis comment is appropriate, and called for. I was blinded by the fact this was the first thing in a while for me, when I...
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    Do I last too long?

    If you can give a girl an orgasm from foreplay before the sex, then I think it's fine if you want to go as long as you want when you actually have sex. However, the point about women drying out is true. Plus, you don't want to stay in the same position for those 35 minutes. Vary it up, and...
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    Roommate situation, advice requested (long)

    Hi all, first post here so be kind. :) The situation I'm an AFC who hasn't been in a relationship or gotten any for a while. Anyhow, the house I'm renting gets two new roommates. Both female. I start flirting with one of them and she flirts back. Three weeks later we're out and about and...
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