big problem with LOVE
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Alen-Delon
Senior Don Juan
i dont think you should call her right at this moment give her time to chill out. think things over... and she should come to some kind of an understanding... why is she going to school in USA their school arent that great anyway... europe has best educational system ever... and plus choicago is too freakin cold to live there... especially for 4 years... i bet she wont last there for 4 years.. i guarantee you.... and just take it easy on your self i mean really its not end of the world.... you are stressed right now but in two weeks you be ok.... us humans can get used to everything and anything thats just the way it is...
P.S let her call you....
P.S let her call you....
Take your time to grieve. Throw some **** around, scream, get it out of your system.
Try to find some activity that leaves you exhausted, or at least takes your mind off stuff. Going to a gym, getting outdoors, etc. The wisdom in the phrase "the best revenge is a good life", is that you need to fill your days with something you're doing for yourself, which also will take your mind off her.
Try to find some activity that leaves you exhausted, or at least takes your mind off stuff. Going to a gym, getting outdoors, etc. The wisdom in the phrase "the best revenge is a good life", is that you need to fill your days with something you're doing for yourself, which also will take your mind off her.
ok i didnt call her. but i sent her an e-mail about how i felt... and she called me 2 hours ago.. i got real happy 
but fawk.. this girl is my soulmate.. this is the best girl i've ever met.. i really don't wanna lose her.. what if she falls in love with someone else? i won't ever have a chance to get with her then?
but fawk.. this girl is my soulmate.. this is the best girl i've ever met.. i really don't wanna lose her.. what if she falls in love with someone else? i won't ever have a chance to get with her then?PuertoRican_Lover
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Sorry bro, this girls love her 'dream' more than you - accept it!! Just because a girl lost her virginity to you doesn't mean she lost her life!! At 19 there is much dreaming (and reality) ahead!!
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
PRL..damn bro..good words of wisdom.
Rapsta..I replied a few posts up..but understand bro...women come and go..its the way of life..yea yea yea..you dont want to hear this sh*t now..but evey guy on here will tell you that there's going to be other women..
and heck..at 19-20 years of age, welcome it..welcome women, welcome the heartache, welcome new experiences..
soulmates? i dont know about that one personally, but, have you honestly met enough women that would qualify this girl you are dating as your soulmate?
ever date an american girl? ever date an older woman? ever date a younger woman? ever date a girl with tons of money? ever date a girl with no money?
my point? experience life...letting this one go (maybe even for now) maybe the best thing you'll ever do in life..
just remember that old trite expression...
when one door closes, another one always opens
What good advice. Read it again!
Most have experienced what you are going through right now, feeling sick, not wanting to eat, not being able to sleep properly. Its a real bad feeling, probably one of the worst you can experience.....it will only become easier. U can have fun and experience your life then, and maybe one day you can see her again and try work things out.
Dont throw the best years of your life away for something that may only turn out to be a pipe dream.
yeah bro.. this is the way i want it to be: we broke up now.. i wanna do my stuff.. and let her do her stuff.. and we both develop/grow as persons.. and when we're done with our eduations.. in 4-5 years.. we get together again.. but if she finds a boyfriend that she will love, i dunno if it will turn out that way.. huh?
She may and probably will find another guy she falls in love with. Doesnt mean you two dont have a chance in the future. This is just something you have to accept. She will eventually most definately fall out of love with him at some stage and break up with him. People fall in and out of love all the time. If you two had something special, eventually you will get back together, you just gotta let time run its course.
I know a guy pretty well who, for the same reason as you, had to break up with his girlfriend. She went overseas to study also. 4 years later and after both had dated and had other boyfriends and girlfriends, they got back together. They are now married and have been very happy ever since.
Time will make it easier, and it will come in waves. Once u push through it, you will find it much easier to be happy again and live your life.