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    Stop me from doing something stupid!

    Well, I already sent her a quick birthday message on Facebook, along with 60+ other AFC's. So maybe skip calling her for a few days?
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    Losing weight while maintaining muscle mass?

    It is a fair point though ... I am strong but very unfit, so five days a week may be pushing it ... I was thinking maybe three days a week of HITT/weights (20 minute sprints with a 3/1 rest/sprint ratio) and one day of just weights ...
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    Losing weight while maintaining muscle mass?

    Thank you for the advice. Should I combine them in the same session, or did you mean do them on alternate days? If I was to combine them in the one session, should I lift first or do the HITT first?
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    Losing weight while maintaining muscle mass?

    Just after some advice ... I currently spend 4-5 days at the gym, doing only weight training. As a result, I have a reasonable amount of muscle mass, but also have a much higher body fat percentage then I would like. I was wondering what the best approach would be for dropping weight, without...
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    Before too slow, now too fast?

    Well, with the most recent girl is an exchange student from Canada (although she plans on being in Australia for a few years). I met her at a university event and chatted to her for a few times on the phone. We went out once and had a good time, and I didn't make any moves. She seemed very keen...
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    Before too slow, now too fast?

    Thanks for the observations. I don't think there is a problem with the actual sex. I have had girls come back a few times before cutting off contact. I generally tend to meet women either on campus at university or off dating web-sites - not sure what can be made of that. I may try your...
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    Before too slow, now too fast?

    Hey guys, Just trying to get some advice on the long, difficult (but rewarding) path to becoming a DJ. In my AFC days, I used to take way too much time making a move or showing sexual interest in girls I really liked. As a result, they would lose patience with me and go run off with some...
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    Do I need to change my approach?

    Thanks for the input so far guys. I am a little confused though - I thoguht that this sort of thing made great social proof, especially when I get a chance to introduce my date to people like Charlize Theron. Johnny Knoxville etc. Any theories on why it hasn't worked out like this? Is it...
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    Do Average Looking chicks compensate by being more shallow?

    I had a theory that average girls are more into looks because they have less opportunities to be with hot guys. HB9-10's usually have more experiences dating hot guys at a younger age, so they realise earlier if they want more then just good looks in a guy. On the other hand, average women may...
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    Do I need to change my approach?

    Just looking for a bit of advice regarding dating strategies. Because of a previous job I held, I get a lot of invitations to red carpet movie premieres, stage show opening nights and so on. These invitations usually allow me to bring a partner. In the past, I have used these invitations as...
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    How good is to play the "ignore her" card?

    Interesting ... I think I have a female friend who may be doing the same thing to me. We have known each other for years, and have both been attracted to each other at the wrong times. She has recently came out of a relationship, and I invited her twice out to movie or show premieres (One of the...
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    Just need some advice for an upcoming night out ...

    Just after some advice ... I am 32. I am taking a 22 year old out to a Red Carpet movie premiere this week which various famous starts like Charlize Theron will be attending (I get passes to these all the time as part of my job). The girl is very attractive and very confident. She is a...
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    Re: How's this? Very clever - I like that one!
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    Why is it that every gay guy I meet who wants to pick me up tries to do so by trying to convince me that I am really gay? :) *Not that there is anything wrong with that*
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    TesuequeRed, I would have quoted your response because it is a great post, full of useful insights that I am sure others will benefit from reading, but I don't think we are meant to quote posts of that length. I think your observations on how young women who are sexually atracted to a man do...
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    Well, I am sure you would try anyway ...:rolleyes: I like to think it is up to the girl to decide who she wants to date - A mature man who knows what he wants, or a twenty-one year old who calls himself "Warlord" and thinks that posturing and posting threats on an internet messageboard makes...
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    Yeah, I picked up on that too. My theory is that she felt she moved too quickly after being seduced by my magical, mystical DJ powers :) and so decided she wanted to take it slowly with the AFC guy to prove to herself that she wasn't a sl*t. Guess it is my fault for not taking the opportunity to...
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    How to respond to brush-off e-mail?

    Hi there, Just after some advice on how to respond to a girl. To set the picture, I am 32. The girl is 21, and about to start university. I went on two dates with this girl. On the first date, she was all over me. On the second date, she was just as keen and wanted to come back home...
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    Was there a specific incident which made you decide you wanted to stop being an AFC?

    Sounds like cognitive dissonance to me. Most of the girls I knew at uni wanted to see themselves as being sexually sophisticated woman with complete control over their sex lives. Sounds like this girl is the same way. She doesn't want to admit that she slept with someone who got her drunk and...
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