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How's your self-image now that you've slimmed down? It may be that you think you aren't as buff as you like, which may show as a relative lack of confidence when you are out. Another explanation is that some girls just like uber-buff guys, you could have a face like a can of smashed arseholes...

Good thread Tha Realnezz, has got some good debate going. Guys, here's my perspective on what he's trying to say. - Recognise when a woman is placing herself in a position to be opened by you. Many don't...if you know the signs it's sooo easy to get digits, kiss, f-close or whatever terms you...

Been away from the site for a few weeks dealing with my one-itis ****...but in the meantime... Was out a couple of weekends ago, had a crap week and was blowing off some steam. All my mates had gone home and it was around 3am. Walked into this bar for yet another drink and had a quick look...

Thanks again for the reply. You're right about being wary of her, I am a bit at the moment. Head is saying one thing, heart is saying another...head is winning though, until I see her in person that is...then the heart gets a workout. I'll probably only see her once or twice a week until she...

Thanks for the reply CLOONEY. You are spot on about emotionally unstable and confused, some things have happened to her recently that explain it a bit, who knows about the rest! Interesting comment you make about the chemistry thing, hadn't thought of it from that perspective before...

Go! What do you have to lose? The Friday night guy might be a total loser...just say "yeah Saturday will be cool, I'll meet you at X place, Z time"...easy. And don't go all weird on her cause she's good looking. Treat and talk to her like you would one of your buddies, then move on to other...

Hi Guys, I've been reading here for a while, replied to a few threads in that time and learnt a fair bit from the pages/bible....had an interesting situation develop over the last couple of months and I need some opinions and advice on how I can tackle this situation. I guess I better lay...

You probably could have used that strip club opening...could have gone and had a look, then challenged her to do it in private...sometimes works. It's all a big game Duke, practice makes perfect man! I enjoy reading all your field reports too, it is different down here in Ozland, the girls...

I read it like this....you cheated on your b/f to get him, he cheated on his g/f for you...great basis to start a relationship on! Trust is just thrown out the window in this case...history always repeats. Got any real life friends you can talk to about this? Coming to an internet board like...

Hottest chick that I've ever hooked up with was a Yahoo Chat then IM pick up...don't discount it! First night I went to her local jazz bar to meet her five other guys tried to pick her up but she went home with me :cool: We saw each other for a while but then I had to move far away for work...

through friends, sport, clubs+bars, ones you run into all the time at the supermarket...I find they all work for me, the friends one is most reliable for me as my friends know the type I go for. If one of us gets a girl we have an unwritten agreement that we try to hook up her friends with our...

Finished the boot camp thread....impressed. I'm in a similar situation to you, military with a bit of rank but not heaps (sit just in the middle) and study part time at civvy Uni. I've had female subordinates blantantly try to pick me up but mixing work with play is just not on, maybe when I...

I'm reading your boot camp thread at the moment and absolutely loving it! Will be following this one with interest. Dan

I was wondering if anyone else takes a quick half hour or so to read the board before heading for a night out? I find it gets me in the right frame of mind and sometimes I get some new ideas to try out that night. Anyone do anything similar? I'd be interested to hear it! Dan edit...

What I find weird is that she asked you a month before hand. If it was a few days before Valentines and both she and you didn't have anything else lined up then it wouldn't be so suss. She's hot and can't get a Valentines date? Here's what I'd do: 1. Tell her that you will consider it and...

Being asked how much money I make by a woman I hardly know is one of my "red flags". Depending on my frame of mind at the time I'll say I do some low paying work and continue talking while steering the conversation towards materialistic things (good golddigger check) or just cut off the date...

If you are finding it difficult to get another date with her this is how I'd go about it... How's your reputation at work? (she works with you I remember you saying) Get the whole "He's a great/hot guy" thing happening from her female colleagues (harder with the older c0ckblocker you...

HB8 who got you the drink in return sounded alright, you could have continued that conversation and used her as social proof to meet all her friends at the party she said she was hosting. I have no doubt you could have explored some possibilities there... You also sounded like you were being...

What OpenMind said is spot on... don't next her but put her to the back of your mind and go do something/someone else for a while. Let her chase you! I read your other thread about this, is she still dealing with the ex-BF crap? Better not to be around when that **** is still happening...

agreed...in my words it's "mates before dates"