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    Trouble with building trust and rapport

    It think it´s a common mistake that men think that they should let her talk 80% en he only 20%. It´s about giving her the feeling that it´s cool to be around you, that you have a life and tell about it. She must notice that if she is around you, her life is of a higher quality than now, without...
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    Text game examples - OLD/Tinder/Instagram

    What do you mean with 'echo her words?'
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    The top 5 mistakes men make with women

    Trying to seduce a woman who shows no mutual interest........and not see all the other women around you who might be interested.
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    Take this or leave this?

    Yep, but give at another try in some months, it worked for me sometimes when dealing with women who came recently from a break up. In the meanwhile, date other women.
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    Take this or leave this?

    I would back off for now since she broke up recently, short contact (flirty text, quick phone call, ask how she's doing, make a joke, send something funny) every 3 weeks, don't go for the weekly contactmoment, it's to predictable and you put yourself in the friendzone. After some months, ask her...
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    If you find out for yourself that you have put a woman on a pedestal, correct it, one of the simplest methods is to stop contacting her for a while (ghosting), don't be afraid to do this for 3 weeks, they feel very good that you apparently did not like them as much as before - "he stopped...
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    Even More.. Wow..f***ked up

    Make it 1-0 for you, un-validate her by the last call (text) message I wrote about (or tell her personal), if she says no.....your last (text) message is: I don´t like prudish women Just these 5 words, nothing more. Which means, hey girl, you failed for validation...... No contact anymore...
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    Even More.. Wow..f***ked up

    Text something like this: let´s meet and b*ng Stop all other activities/texting with her. I did it twice, one time with a totally flaky girl from Czech, living here, she was active on many dating sites and had a warehouse of men who want to date her and some already did. After this text, I...
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    Even More.. Wow..f***ked up

    A female who wants to have many back up men around her, I met them too, and she´s in control, with many back uppers ready to fullfill her wishes she is leading, because of this not you or the other men. I think this type of woman is not someone to start a serious relationship with, I would send...
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    I agree, but for a period of time, when they don´t want (often they say they want, but they can not) to settle, exactly as you say: inflate their ego. ¨I´m such a photo modell, I only want to date very good looking guys, that´s what I deserve, poe ha¨. After they found out they are only average...
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    When meeting, telling about interesting or funny things you have experienced in your life also works well (for me), it builds trust and shows that you are a normal person. But about you now, don't tell to much to soon, let them imagine, guess, mystery. And make them laugh, without behaving like...
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    Not behaving like a nice guy, being a challenge for her instead of you only running after her is, my personal experience, more important than looks. I'm in my 40's, bald and you can see that I like beer, but still no problems with women because of this.
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    That´s why I don´t write that anymore, I don´t want them to like me because of this, but I know for sure that many women are simply together with a certain man, almost only because of his money, house, boat etc.
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    How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

    Why a woman falls for a certain man, they often do not understand themselves, so let us not worry about it. What strikes me is that if I say that I have my own business and own a bigger house, it is a lot easier, much easier...... apparently women find these matters very important
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    Modern day game- Instagram

    Also, don´t start a conversation with to much chat / sending messages, it can make you look needy/desperate/nerd (.......this guy has nothing else to do). Build some connection without becoming her online chat friend, it´s no problem to take some days or even 1 week for it and than propose to...
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    Modern day game- Instagram

    I write something like "hi I'm (name), I see that you also (do same sport, live in the same area, have the same dog breed etc, something to make a comfortable connection), what do you think of getting acquainted here?" And than, if she is showing interest in you, a normal conversation starts.
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    Girlfriends ex ****buddy? How to react

    It´s already a bad sign that she 1) wants to meet her (ex-)f***buddy again and 2) she needs you to set boundaries........wtf. She behaves like a child. In your case I would tell her that the she can contact you again when she can prove that she´s not a child anymore. In the meanwhile you start...
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    She asks me to help her at home, but we didn´t kiss/had s**

    That could be reality, so let's make a DJ-law: first sex, and only than we'll help women in their house, with their car, etc. No sex = no facilities from us
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    She asks me to help her at home, but we didn´t kiss/had s**

    I will, I already did once with a girl years a go, and she did, high quality, I proposed and she (2 days later) agreed
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    She asks me to help her at home, but we didn´t kiss/had s**

    Yes I was there, when I walked out she asked me for the repair, but while I was there and even flirting with her, she was cold.
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