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Here in The Netherlands where I live, we call a man who cares to much about his looks (to much body building, to much tanning bed, always wearing expensive clothing with the brandname big written on it, every week hairdresser, trying to be the confident guy but suddenly changing into emotional...

No, extremes I would not advice. It's all about that: - you believe in yourself as a valuable person with many qualities, that gives you self-confidence - that you go for what you want, for example when it's about women, but never ever is a certain woman your target (for example Sandra), you...

The red flag because of this: big chance that she will do it again, when you both are a couple, there are types of girls who are always looking for someone ¨better¨

Than I unsubscribe :rofl::rofl::rofl:, perfect! If a girls says we can be friends, just friends, you can say, with a girl I never ever can be friends only......(and don´t say more, she will react like ¨what do you mean?¨, just smile and say ¨no comment¨, again with a smile, she will know what...

Get a drink with her, no expectations, flirt with her, with a little bit of touching (and look her in the eyes sometimes, works perfect) and see how she reacts, if she stay´s cold, than she maybe only wants you to be her friend, without intimacy. If she also starts flirting, or becomes ¨lovely...

The solution could be by making sure that there will be no trigger for any anger anymore, by sitting at home, doing nothing and especially no risk taking. Boring. But as I always say, no risk = no fun. So accept that things go wrong, because of taking risks. But also notice, that because of...

Dumps you/cheats: Move on and don´t stay in the bad atmosphere, it´s toxic, unfortunately it´s a part of the behaviour of many women, we can change our own behaviour/emotions, not that from women (maybe we can if we put much much energy in it, but better use your energy for nice things, which...

The I don´t care attitude is a very good way do deal with it, when it´s about dating women. You never need to be become angry when dating women. Why? Because there are so many great other women! If she does something what doesn´t conform to your values and norms.......walk away, slowly and in...

Go and check out other women, don´t waste time with waiting - if and when - an ex will come back, there are so many good other women, you only notice them when you stop thinking about an ex.

Same answer as for other female tests: joke about it and than change the subject, be the leader

One good photo is already enough, according to my experience, can be a total standard photo. Your profile text is very important, most men fail here, they write in boring almost business language. Like: ¨hi ladies, I´m Bob, from Amsterdam, my hobbies are Netflix, my dog en going out with...

2-5 percent before seeing the bed with a date, true. You must be strong and don´t give up, with 10 messages/day + good profile text, you´ll get results, but it can take some time is my experience. Those niche OLD sites, for example for higher educated people, absolutely higher rate. I had 2...

True, having good results at OLD is 1. a numbers game (send everyday at least 10 messages to girls you never contacted before to get result, 1:10, 1:15 is normal) 2. have good profile text where you trigger female emotions (so not I'm Jan, 40 years old, my hobbies are......and like to...

My experience where I live, Netherlands, is that this method can work here too, but only if the woman is already totally into you (love on first sight, or something like this). If not, she can feel not comfortable and therefore not attracted to you, because you are caring more for her than she...

I agree, non-needy behaviour is very, if not the most, important part of behaviour to women. Also when a woman doesn't say a real "yes I want" after you invited her to your home/to get a drink/to do something. Hold back, be indifferent/oblivious, and don't contact her next days again, but...

Smiling in order to get validated as a "good guy" by women is the mistake men make and that's not attractive, it's fake. There is no need for this. Smile when there is a situation to smile, otherwise act normal / how you feel at that moment, without making drama to her of course, indifference...

It´s also often like going with a group of 10 fishermen to the sea although there are only 2 fishes in that sea which you can get. So is the same with many (free) online dating sites/apps. There are less (hot) women than (often needy) men available. So the women lead there, here it already...

The best results I have one niche dating sites, especially the ones for the higher educated, woman there also less flake. BIg ones like the Dutch version of match.com, it´s a gambling numbers game, I had success here 3x, but it was not that easy, it´s like contact 5 - 10 woman (you never...

What I learned: always care less than she cares, always be less nice than she is. Otherwise, she sees you as a nice guy, this is not attractive for her, s*xually.

But maybe more important, touch them, women know what this means.