FJA
Don Juan
I'm new here, so let me introduce myself. My name is Frank, I'm living in The Netherlands, 44 years old. Before 2009 I was the most worst
dating-specialist of the country ;-), although average/good looks and good communication levels. After this it changed totally and I became a real DJ. In 2011 I did a 24 hours "marathon", s*x with 3 different good looking dates in 24 hours great time
. I have much experience with offline dating, but even more with OLD. I like to discuss the different types of OLD girls, I see many guys around me who are not satisfied with OLD-website. In many cases it has to that they are searching there for the wrong type of women, or react to them in a not that good way.
Of course, feel free to discuss!
Here we go:
1. The for some weeks divorced woman, who was in a long relationship and she can't be alone
This kind of woman is hungry for a rebound relationship (often you'll hear that after 1 month she already has a new boyfriend, a total sweety) what you don't want to have (only if like to be a tissue), or will flake again and again on you because her ex is still 24/7 in her head and you are not you don't reach any sexual point. From my experience, don't put much energy is this type of woman. If she would be really honest to herself, she's not ready to do anything with another man, at this moment. Yes.....at this moment, you can have success with them later. What I often did, I contacted them, and even went for a short drink somewhere, expecting nothing else, but still flirting and a little touching. Than hold back, totally, weeks/months and let other man date her. Most times these men are not successful because she is doing it dating to fast after the break up. After a period of time, she healed here divorce-issues, she brakes up with him and only than she's open for something serious. I contact here again, she remembers me as a man who was flirting with her and let things escalate much easier.
2. The golden p*ssy girl, can be combined with no. 1 often
She receives 10 messages per hour (that's why her smartphone is connected to the charger always) from men who compliment her on her appearance and her photos and that values here even more growing ego. The want to take here out ASAP and send here messages every day. As a result, she leads, you as a man you follow here and noting else. A female friend of me is like this and we even speak about here OLD-results. Many hungry man contact here whole day, mostly not leading to any result. She's totally not serious when it comes to dating and she's also not looking for a serious relation. But, with some men she accepts invitations for dinners and other expensive invitations. When she goes out with her friends, she told me she could leave here wallet at home, there's automatically a man who buys here drinks. I would never date this kind of girl, they are (for this moment) only looking for walking wallets and attention. It doesn't mean you can not contact them again in period of time, to see in which "stage of life" she is. But, these types of women are often the mean-type, the *****, who only does what she wants, alpha-woman, often this is why a relationship in the past didn't work for them.
3. The I'm here to chat woman
This type of woman uses OLD as a lazy chatfacility. She only wants to chat, flirts with you, but it leads to nothing. Often they tell you that they are not ready for more yet, but maybe later, bull**** of course. I always reacted with these words: I think you are maybe a nice girl, but I'm not looking for online chat friends, so let's go for a drink than and than (propose 2 or 3 times). Any other answer of here else than conforming a date = no answer from you again anymore. NEXT.
4. The ones with a long wish list
Profile texts of this kind of women is 70% filled with things like "he should not be bold, longer than 1m80, muscles" etc. If you like to date
predators which will be the same in a relationship with you, then it will go like "you should have a better job, we should have a more luxury car, you don't buy presents that much anymore for me", go for it. They change boyfriends fast, especially if you don't have a big house but a man she met has.
5. The psych
Don't dare to not answer here message to slow otherwise she'll blame on you. She likes to play games, she wants you to do much for here, but she's doing almost nothing for you. She's in-dependable, she's says, she doesn't need a man. She likes to play hard to get in order to make you weak, therefore she selects the type of men she wants to date, if you appear as a strong man, there's no chance for you. Lucky you! This type likes the Nice Guy, because she can behave like a piece of sh*t without the NG throwing her out of the front door. Often this type of women dates (to) many men at the same time.
6. The woman you can date
The best type of woman to date, it doesn't matter if you met her offline or online, is the one who already had some other dates. Sounds strange to many, because many men want to be here first date, but this is bull****. Let others pass, let them do most of the work, let them warm here up. Many woman are more open to things, especially sexually, if they build some recent experience. Also, let her experience that there are many weirdo's when it comes to dating.....that there are not so many high quality man like you. After some dating-experience, she will see / feel the difference between them and you as a high quality man.
dating-specialist of the country ;-), although average/good looks and good communication levels. After this it changed totally and I became a real DJ. In 2011 I did a 24 hours "marathon", s*x with 3 different good looking dates in 24 hours great time
. I have much experience with offline dating, but even more with OLD. I like to discuss the different types of OLD girls, I see many guys around me who are not satisfied with OLD-website. In many cases it has to that they are searching there for the wrong type of women, or react to them in a not that good way.Of course, feel free to discuss!
Here we go:
1. The for some weeks divorced woman, who was in a long relationship and she can't be alone
This kind of woman is hungry for a rebound relationship (often you'll hear that after 1 month she already has a new boyfriend, a total sweety) what you don't want to have (only if like to be a tissue), or will flake again and again on you because her ex is still 24/7 in her head and you are not you don't reach any sexual point. From my experience, don't put much energy is this type of woman. If she would be really honest to herself, she's not ready to do anything with another man, at this moment. Yes.....at this moment, you can have success with them later. What I often did, I contacted them, and even went for a short drink somewhere, expecting nothing else, but still flirting and a little touching. Than hold back, totally, weeks/months and let other man date her. Most times these men are not successful because she is doing it dating to fast after the break up. After a period of time, she healed here divorce-issues, she brakes up with him and only than she's open for something serious. I contact here again, she remembers me as a man who was flirting with her and let things escalate much easier.
2. The golden p*ssy girl, can be combined with no. 1 often
She receives 10 messages per hour (that's why her smartphone is connected to the charger always) from men who compliment her on her appearance and her photos and that values here even more growing ego. The want to take here out ASAP and send here messages every day. As a result, she leads, you as a man you follow here and noting else. A female friend of me is like this and we even speak about here OLD-results. Many hungry man contact here whole day, mostly not leading to any result. She's totally not serious when it comes to dating and she's also not looking for a serious relation. But, with some men she accepts invitations for dinners and other expensive invitations. When she goes out with her friends, she told me she could leave here wallet at home, there's automatically a man who buys here drinks. I would never date this kind of girl, they are (for this moment) only looking for walking wallets and attention. It doesn't mean you can not contact them again in period of time, to see in which "stage of life" she is. But, these types of women are often the mean-type, the *****, who only does what she wants, alpha-woman, often this is why a relationship in the past didn't work for them.
3. The I'm here to chat woman
This type of woman uses OLD as a lazy chatfacility. She only wants to chat, flirts with you, but it leads to nothing. Often they tell you that they are not ready for more yet, but maybe later, bull**** of course. I always reacted with these words: I think you are maybe a nice girl, but I'm not looking for online chat friends, so let's go for a drink than and than (propose 2 or 3 times). Any other answer of here else than conforming a date = no answer from you again anymore. NEXT.
4. The ones with a long wish list
Profile texts of this kind of women is 70% filled with things like "he should not be bold, longer than 1m80, muscles" etc. If you like to date
predators which will be the same in a relationship with you, then it will go like "you should have a better job, we should have a more luxury car, you don't buy presents that much anymore for me", go for it. They change boyfriends fast, especially if you don't have a big house but a man she met has.
5. The psych
Don't dare to not answer here message to slow otherwise she'll blame on you. She likes to play games, she wants you to do much for here, but she's doing almost nothing for you. She's in-dependable, she's says, she doesn't need a man. She likes to play hard to get in order to make you weak, therefore she selects the type of men she wants to date, if you appear as a strong man, there's no chance for you. Lucky you! This type likes the Nice Guy, because she can behave like a piece of sh*t without the NG throwing her out of the front door. Often this type of women dates (to) many men at the same time.
6. The woman you can date
The best type of woman to date, it doesn't matter if you met her offline or online, is the one who already had some other dates. Sounds strange to many, because many men want to be here first date, but this is bull****. Let others pass, let them do most of the work, let them warm here up. Many woman are more open to things, especially sexually, if they build some recent experience. Also, let her experience that there are many weirdo's when it comes to dating.....that there are not so many high quality man like you. After some dating-experience, she will see / feel the difference between them and you as a high quality man.
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