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This is difficult to answer, perhaps it is impossible actually. You can really only be sure when you find one who was with you while you were struggling or rising up to where you are now.

It can hurt your ego if you let it for sure. The random ghosting mid conversation I don't really care about. When we agree to meet, communicate or a while, exchange numbers, plan the time and place, and then the day of, get a message that she doesn't want to (of course packaged into some...

Anything below 30s, im not actually 34 like it says on here, I'm 31. One could say I'm just shooting above my SMV, which I would agree with I guess. But somehow I'm shooting above my SMV with IRL interactions, it's odd.

Flaking, girls looking much different than their pictures, randomly ghosting after conversations seemingly going well, boring personalities, I can go on and on. There is nothing that can supplant in person chemistry, reading body language, subtle facial cues, versus texting on a 6 inch screen...

You need to look for signals first. Are you approaching women who don't give you any eye contact, who don't smile, who don't move closer to your proximity? If you are messing things up after getting signals, work on being more socially calibrated, learn to tell some jokes, be relaxed, etc.

A better option came through (in her mind), just roll with the punches and move on to the next one. If she is particularly hot and you want to smash, then just leave a message like you did "Np, well let me know if things change". Now she is reduced to plate status if you ever hook up with her.

Good insights, I do wonder when exactly this will happen, or will there be a new shiny object to take its place.

If you don't yet see how damaging the mental/pyschological effects are from heavy social media use, I don't think me writing a huge exposition on the topic will help you understand. How it numbs/deletes creativity, emotions, attention span, breeds narcissism, entitlement, essentially amplifies...

Fair point. But let me ask you, for girls that are single, what is there throughput of meeting new guys? Social circle, in person approaches, and dating apps as as last resort correct? Any girl who is an 8+ will not need the dating apps usually, so it's very rare to find one on any app. She...

I have traveled quite a bit recently, across north america, europe, a little bit of asia. It doesn't matter what the culture is, what the language, what time zone you are in. Girls of a certain level of physical attractiveness, that happen to be single, that are age 25 or below, are addicted to...

Read the no contact thread on this forum. Obviously, do not contact her, but there are some cognitive tricks you can try that worked for me. When you find your mind drifting towards thinking about her, just say I hope she is happy and sort of wish her the best, like you are saying goodbye to...

You played with the double edge sword of not locking up a good one early. They are rare, and yes, they do get locked up early. Many men are in your position, some due to their own choosing, some due to circumstances beyond their control.

It is a little better, I am from EE/balkans region, but the younger girls are the same like the ones in america. Social media has homogenized the world for let's say the 22-25 and younger crowd. I don't know which group you are targeting, perhaps the older women who didn't grow up with this...

It's not that, he probably has narcissistic personality disorder or he might be a sociopath. These are not admirable qualities to have, be happy you are not like him.

It's not out of favour now...no one is coming to save most men and no one ever has. Most are just work horses to be used for gdp production and consumption. Except for the top 1% who are protected, funny how socialism for the rich is fair whereas ruthless capitalism is left for the plebians (I...

Quite the darwinistic world view, well be careful when you yourself aren't on top of the food chain any longer (if you even are but I doubt the quality you're pulling to be honest), let's see if you're singing a different tune. Let's just imagine any society with your vision. No more children...

Hypergamy is the logical answer, plus women are getting their dopamine hits from social media and other sources, not wanting to "settle", etc. The large majority of these guys would be paired off 50 years ago, they aren't anything worse than their father's generation.

Perhaps if nationality/ethnicity are so important you should consider moving to where there are more of them, i.e. that particular country. What is stopping you from doing so? As for this one yes you should just abort mission but don't be in scarcity, move to where you won't be in scarcity.

What you are describing is just a natural consequence of the digital world in an unregulated dating market. Just like in other industries, it is very much a winner take all scenario unless there is regulation. In which case, religion, more economic equality, and a limited access to pools of...

Good job pulling the plug. You need to go cold turkey though and block her if she will keep trying to reel you back in. This is purely a power play on her part, I promise you if you give in, you will be making another thread here full of bitterness how you were a fool and she got the last laugh.