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It is increasingly getting worse, I would recommend you to maximize your online presence, as an older guy it will be your main breakthrough. People's in person social skills are declining significantly, if you are shooting younger it will need to be through the digital realm nowadays, through an...

It's really rare to make genuine female friends, interests are just too dissimilar.

Sorry to hear about your mom. Maybe it would be better to rent the house out if possible until you get yourself sorted.

I agree, just pointing out why grinding is important. Where your kids go to school, your zip code, the neighborhood of your house, are all critically important.

move into middle management.

This all changes if you have a wife and family to support. Suddenly money becomes a lot, lot more important, especially if health complications arise.

I resisted but made a profile eventually, yes it helps build your social proof and connect with the younger generation. Male and female for different purposes obviously. However, make sure you make a good profile, travel pictures, doing fun things, no lame selfies, etc.

Euphemism for being a good emotional manipulator lol.

I agree, but the system is too strong and designed to weaken a very large number of men. It is simply inevitable when you expand the workforce as it has been done, increase inflation so that practically two income households are necessary to live for the majority of people, and empower women...

It is a dilemma that will likely end in a decreased birth rate like in many asian societies. Investing in entertainment based stocks, streaming, social media companies will be a good way to capitalize economically from this. For our own personal situations though, perhaps it is learning another...

Then target the girls who do want you until you level up to the next tier.

Think about this prototypical "chad" who is getting the hot girls you are chasing after. Who do you think is doing the chasing/seducing here, who has the leverage? If you have ever hooked up with girls you will know when a girl wants you she will make it very, very obvious she is interested...

If the entire point of "this" is trying to bag girls that are higher SMV than you, you are in for a long road of rejection and expenditure of time, money, and energy for diminishing returns.

It's probably not your body but your face I'm sorry to be blunt, are you an old looking 40?

You are doing it wrong, she is supposed to seduce/entertain you. You are shooting above your SMV if this is the other way around.

The reason why providing is natural for men is because we men have other purpose in this life we create. We naturally create value and feel fulfilled by doing so, be it building a house, providing a service, inventing something, etc. By extension we share what we reap with someone who can help...

Hmm, maybe. I find that many "good" guys will have to succumb to some manipulation the hotter the girl is. Again, it all seemingly comes down to SMV and who has leverage over the other person, and how much.

In general these things are true. The only exception I see for #1 is that, and I know this personally with women in my social circle, who have gone for beta guys in relationships to get security precisely because they lost the guy who they had perhaps "true" attraction for in their earlier...

"I’m 27 years old and my husband is 37 years old. We have a 1 year old. I’m 5’2 I was 130 pounds before pregnancy and I’m currently sitting at 160 pounds My husband told me that he almost cheated on me when he was out one weekend for a work trip. A girl also in her 20s was showing interest in...

It is a pretty good deal for a guy because he gets companionship and intimacy without the guillotine of the state awaiting him for child support payments/alimony + other consequences of divorce. Also flings are not so easy to acquire, for most men a stable long term relationship with a...