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4 weeks is way to early for all this...you should be focusing on fun filled dates with opportunities for sex to happen. But to be honest, she sounds insecure and you can tell she wants to dominate the 'relationship' ...she comes across as somebody of high drama and this will drive you crazy. I...

It seems you are concentrating too much on this one girl....it happens to the best of us, but its not going to get you anywhere. Your probably looking at your phone every 5 min to see if she texted or snapped shotted you. Im not criticizing you, I'm trying to help you. Don't ever let a woman...

The only thing you should do is absolutely nothing. You probably set yourself back with the "we're done" comment. But @RangerMIke makes a good point.....if you go back, you may as well hand her your balls on a platter because she will dictate the relationship, friendship, whatever it is you guys...

I think thats the most logical explanation i heard. And it makes perfect sense now that i think about. As good looking as she is, you can see she had insecurities. Its probably why she drinks often. I did what i could to make her feel safe and comfortable. I think she wasnt ready.

@sazc Its near impossible to balance. I KNOW she had a great time with me, especially after 2nd date because thats where i felt her get the closest to me. Her body language spoke for itself, And yes i was thinking the same thing regarding not texting for next 6 days. Because after i reached...

Thats the thing, im telling the story to learn. Im not hung up on her, nor waiting for her to come back. I just wanted to know what went wrong for the future. And my plan of action is to do nothing

I didnt talk about family at the dance place, i danced with her a s had fun. We talked about that when we were at dinner getting to know eachother. Im not disagreeing with you, but she met me at dance place twice and we went out for dinner twice. Something must have went right i kissed her...

If my girl came back....the first thing I would be thinking to myself is: She is looking for an ego boost. Whether I'm right or wrong, thats the first thing I would be thinking. Why? because she let 4 months go by and I don't hear anything from her, now all the sudden she reaches out? Is it...

who could she blame? and for what

I don't think so either....Corey Wayne says some come back up to a year later, but i think, for whatever reason, she's gone. I'm not mad, nor do i take it personal, but its her loss.....and I'm not bitter toward her....if i did see her at the dance place maybe i would talk to her briefly, but...

we talked a lot on the 2 dates we went on.....and when she came to meet me at the dance place twice we talked.... i only used the phone to set up dates, no chit chatting or texting back and forth. And yes she knows what i do for a living and that I was studying for my boards. We talked about...

I think you hit it on the head. Honestly, i don't know if this woman is capable of every showing a guy true affection or ever being secure enough to act on her true feelings She was born in Ecuador, and stayed there for 12 years with her grandmother while her parents came to US. She then moved...

@sazc The first date went very well....she flaked in between 1st and 2nd date. When she did, i laid low and did nothing. Remember at that time i was studying for my exam focusing on my purpose, so i made that the priority, but I still showed her interest and tried to set up dates. After I...

im familiar with Corey Wayne, he makes a lot of sense. This thread was not a "what should I do" thread. There is only 1 thing to do, and thats walk and don't look back. But I'm curious as to whether the really hot ones, who probably have a lot of options....every come back after realizing...

interesting were going on 4 months since i walked from a super super hot flake. Our last contact was her reaching out to me telling me she may meet me at this salsa place i go to on wednesdays if she got out of work early. She never showed and haven't heard from her since...this was in august...

we've all been flaked on one time or another we've all had women who we thought were interested, then either went cold or starting sending mixed signals my question is, what happens when the girl realizes you were a catch and regrets her actions? this could come after she's dated beta's...or...

I would only abandon ship if you see a pattern of flakiness etc Its the guys job to initiate dates, if shes interested she should acceptt or if she couldnt make it she will offer a reschedule. Im not sure what she did in your case, but for me, i initiated dates, she accepted, then flaked...

I will read the thread, I suspect the same thing and dont think i will reach out again, i will run the risk of blowing her head up, id rather leave with dignity. im just confused as we had great dates, and interest was high. When she started to flake and cancel dates, i dissapeared, and...

True I have many hobbies... salsa dancing, guitar, working out. But after 3 plus months, i doubt shes still sorting out emotions... although she did post happy bday to me on FB in Oct, i take that with a grain of salt. Many people have told me interest is still there because it wasnt, she...

I started to think maybe she took me not chasine as a sign i wasnt interested... but thinking back, i initiated dates, and my body language screamed interest. Should i poke the tiger and ask my instructor about her or leave well enough alone? I have a hard time wrapping my head about all of...