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What if you showed her nothing but great times; aways showed respect, and never got angry when she flaked. But the girl doesnt appear to know how to reach out after a few months. In othet words, what if shes still interested, which i believe she is, but wont reqch out in fear of rejection or...

Lol i have....she hasnt heard a thing from me Just wondering if they come back ever, especially when they can only associate you with good times.... when you had great times and never disrespected them.

For me its been 4 months since i hears from oneitis. She actually FB posted happy birthday to me in October, but i don't count that. Last i heard from her she was planning on meeting me out if she got out of work early. She never showed and that was it. But i see your chips have been coming back...

something very similar happened to me a few months back. I met this girl that i was introduced to by my salsa instructor. We hit it off that night, we danced, had a great time....to the point where my salsa instructor saw me later that night and said "my friend really likes you". we exchanged...

A woman who is afraid to express how she feels A woman who is afraid to go after what she wants Aka: plays games and tries to intitiate a guy she actually likes to chase her instead of making it easy for him or meeting him half way A woman who would watch a guy she likes walk away simply...

update: her birthday came and went in september my bday was two days ago ...10/19....now remember, I havent heard from her in close to 2 months.....yet, she posts happy bday to my Facebook. Now of course I did absolutely nothing about it....but my question to you is, why bother? What is her...

Its a tough call...i would be very weary shes not looking for an ego strone personally. Because if you give in, and she pulls the same thing... she wins. I know its hard but your attitude should be "you had your chance, peace!" And i know its hard, in the past i gave 2nd chances out like...

Great post! You are spot on about it all. My hopes for this girl have disappeared...and you are right about the bday text...thats why I sent her nothing. The reason why i said "il save you a dance", was because when she reached out that time, i genuinely thought it was really to see me and i...

Exactly, i dont lack confidence. I know what i bring to the table, i say this humbly but there are plenty if women who would love to be in her position. This is not a put on, i absokutely think Its her loss. I just passed my licensure exam for nurse practitioner, something i worked extremely...

All fair points Either way i would not change any of my actions. It started out great, she showed a lot of interest and then for whatever reason, she just started sending mixed signals. Either way I'm out. Will never tolerate games from a woman, ever.

The ONLY reason why i thiught of sending bday text was to show indifference by not letting her think im affected by dissapear act. But i thought about, and a couple good posts here made me realize she deserves nothing from me. She could care less and if she does care, she has shty way of...

Exactly.... And i walked each time she flakes. I know it doesnt matter, but why reach out a few weeks ago? Makes no sense to me if she had zero interest. today is her bday, she gets sht from me. I walked and Not looking back.

Agreed...i gave her benefit of the doubt... Now that i think of it, i wonder if she was seeing another guy in the meantime... Who knows. She sidnt come across as that type of woman, but its very possible... At this point who cares.

you are exactly right.... i guess i got confused because of her reaching out and all, looked like she was going to turn the corner and cool it with the games....but now i see it doesn't matter....she doesn't care, why should I.

i have plenty of self respect....i never chased her...nor will I ever chase any woman. i walked away and have not looked back....i was asking about bday text because i want to show indifference....but after thinking about it...she deserves absolutely nothing from me...i don't care she reached...

Yes she probably is...and yes i will too..... decision made, she isn't getting a bday text.....she deserves nothing from me...and thats what she's going to get

"il save you a dance" was meant to be flirty. And when she didn't show, which was 3 weeks ago, she has not heard from me since. So don't really know what i did wrong there. She reached out to me, asked how my studying was going, asked how i was...i responded 4 hours later because i was at...

things did not go south because of anything I did or didn't do. After our first date, she flaked on a meet up after that cause she was at the beach, i gave benefit of the doubt. After i invited her out a second date and she flaked, i walked...the next day she tex the in the AM about meeting up...

after she blew off saturday night date last month...I walked and didn't look back...she contacted me after 9 days of NC to see how i was doing, how my studying was going etc and to tell me she may be going dancing that night. I said something flirty like "sounds good, il save you a dance (wink...