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i read that numerous women have rape fantasies because they crave having desires filled without having to take responsibility for it in society's eyes, i.e. a beneficial rape.

Hey im going to be a dad because i thought the same thing, and this girl had birth control. So... Sorry to hear you did this. Good luck.

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mmhmm, i pay the same regardless if i stick around to help or not which is silly

I'm reading rollo's second book and the alpha seed, beta need thing he talks about is hitting me hard.

that might increase her attraction to you though. want what they cant have etc.

Good problem to have. But I'd be covert and just not react/reply. That's the language, covertness, women speak, so she will get it.

minimal at best

thanks. shes asked that i and her meet her mom tomorrow over dinner.

Dated two bpd and I seem to miss them more than my more normal exs in comparison, meaning it took longer for me to get over them. Weird, because when I did get with healthier women I knew immediately they were higher quality than those with bpd.

yeah, sadly, the majority of my girlfriends/flings have been with people i have worked with, so i cant say dont do it if you are madly attracted. however, if it ends badly, you WILL mess up your work environment. Get with her and push her out the door... meaning job. Or else.

according to the child support income calculator and what she has told me about her income it's between 150-180 a month. However, I may be roped into helping her pay for pre and post natal expenses if her insurance is bad or nonexistent. Again, its information i dont know that she has yet to relay.

Gauge her interest level. If its already really high, just ask. But... if you plan on being there a while with a career might want to not act at all. Drama and mad women in the workplace is strenuous and can cause tension between you and your boss.

we were both reckless, her not following her doctors instructions on the bc and me not using a condom anyway. Whatever the case, she is dead set on keeping it, which is fine. But im starting to wonder if that was what she wanted all along. She has no future career goals and has flunked out of...

Seems like there would be a high risk of losing frame and becoming emotional attached or afc'd to a MAYBE girl than a YES one. Dangerous.

Yes, I am aware of that and my post should have been phrased better. My main question was about if I should bother pursuing the mother again or just call it lost, though having the mother and dad not equally present in the kids life is something I assumed as a bad thing for the kids upbringing...

Good advice, thanks

From what I read, yeah the court will order one done since I'm unsure and yeah I will have to initiate visitation rights myself. I am hoping I can make an agreement with her out of court because child support itself is fairly minimal. She'd get more if she would let me co-raise it and pay by...

Oh yeah, she is definitely doing child support. She is adamant on that. NC, usa

Absolutely. My question is in more regards to the mother.