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Day 32: Been a while since I last posted here. Things have gotten LOTS better since then. I had a chat with my ex and my manager together. Ended the work issues and actually gave us some closure. Haven't felt upset or anything at all anymore. I miss her body a little, but that's really all. Her...

Day 19: NC is not working out too well due to work. She decided to get my manager in on this and my manager said we should work things out. Today we had a private chat. It basically came down to her telling me that she didn't want to ever see me or speak to me again. This chat was supposed to...

The one from John A. was one I heard about on this forum. I liked it, definitely gave me some good theories about past "blunders" and some pointers on my Beta behaviours and all that. The Blueprint is more like a huge documentary, takes about 20 hours and discusses a lot of things about self...

Day 13: Saw her on the street, said hi, passed. Nothing much. Somehow I do flinch when I see her name on whatsapp (We are in some group work chats together) and when she pops up on facebook in that work group. I don't get that, it's like I'm moving on, but she still has an impact on me when I...

Day 9: Had to work with her for 6 hours, didn't flinch. Fact that she ignored me probably makes it easier. Negative thoughts about her are completely gone, all that remains is the occasional "We had fun, Friends with Benefits would've been nice". Then again, distancing myself from her and...

Know your pain. Try deleting her from Facebook. If you don't want to, you can change your settings so you don't see any notifications from her and disable chat with her. Don't look at her page of course and just give it time. This feeling will pass as long as you keep your goal in mind...

Day 5: She still has my keys, but blocked my texts so i called her to tell her I want them back. No reply, sent her a text (Different device) saying I want them back. I don't like contacting her, but I prefer that over her having the keys to my apartment. Also, if I lose my own I need to be...

We were a couple for a week. I was as happy as I could be. She dumped me, we tried again and then she rejected me. Call me weak, maybe I'm overreacting, but the first two days were hard for me. Day 3-4: On day 3 I was doing well. Had my first driving lesson and I applied for a job at a sports...

Friend showed me a picture of my "ex" reacting "hahahahaha" to a picture on facebook which basically said "If a door closes in your life, you better make god damn sure it stays shut". Told him to never do that again. Seeing her face causes an emotional response. Trying not to overthink it, it...

You're completely right man. Deep inside I still want to have that added bonus of seeing her struggle to help me get through this. I sent her a text telling her that I wanted NC and I was in agony, too scared to even read her reply. She's also a girl who will always try to keep her act up, so...

Heya, I made a post on the forum several days ago about a girl who couldn't make up her mind about me. Have been in love for a while, and decided to get some clarity yesterday. Technically this wasn't a break-up, but a rejection. However we've been extremely close for over 6 months, we've had a...

Thanks guys, think I have a good feeling of how it works. However, I simply couldn't handle it at all. I couldn't handle being in between or treating her like a plate while being in this thing with her. I could man up, but I couldn't not give a damn while still seeing her. She also works at my...

Ye I see this whole thing as a learning process for myself. Having some game knowledge is one thing, but experiencing all this first-hand helps me develop myself. @Braindamage: She used to be in love with a guy for a very long time, she never got him. It might be that she is still hanging on to...

Allright, that sounds legit. I believe me being myself is not challenging enough to keep her interested when things get serious, or things getting serious is just not really her thing in the first place. I'm gonna stick to the advice. Get my feelings out of this as quickly as possible and accept...

Thanks man, I like the advice and putting this up here also allows me to better evaluate my own situation. However, the advice you're giving lies far outside my comfort zone. I mean let's say I "slip up", how do I tell her? I'd likely be in fear of losing her because of it. I do get the total...

Ye I like that I'm not out of the game yet, but the balance has just shifted. Seems like a good pointer, but that would be a lie. So do you: Suggest I attempt to get some more babes interested in me or are you telling me to fake it? just trying to clarify :)

I'm 22 years old.

Hey guys, I'd love to get some pointers on this one. There's a girl I like quite a lot for about 6 months now. Got laid on my first night with her, but I started a strong "beta-move" (unconsciously, was being "myself"), asking her to come over a lot and giving her a lot of my attention. Gave...