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back again to this forum after few years. succesfully used no contact twice few years back in 2 previous relationship now just got dumped by my gf of 9months it started good and went to sh*tty relationship after the 5 months together. she always insecure, jealous,and negatively thinking about...

Btw i lived in south east asian country. Men here commonly very afc. So i didnt escalate like u did. U did great btw. But im pretty sure i handled much better compared to lot of guys in my country. Im showing confidence. I do not nervous. I make her laugh.etc. She seems genuinely happy and...

hey thankyou dude for ur fast reply. Yes,im trying to spin some plates now. I was sure that my approach is different because thanks to this forum. i learn a lot from this forum few years back since i got dumped. And she seemed to put me as her priority. I still wonder why. And i want to learn...

Wtf bro. Similar scenario just happened to me. Meet a girl on tinder. Doing very well in texting, flirting make joke, etc. she responded very well. But i was very busy that time.she even said dont give her false hope, or i will get karma, she didnt said it seriously, but while jokong. So about 2...

Its been a while I finished the challenge yesterday. 60days of no contact. I just been feeling great recently First thought when i took this challenge, i would be able to get over her in a month. But i didnt.until about day 45 i started to get over her. Until i finished hia challenge, i just...

hope all of u are ok. its been while im now on day 44 and feel so much better. i havent improved so much due to my desperation earlier. but now i will focus more in improving myself, improving my business, and do whatever it takes to improve myself. i have been working out these last 3...

i feel exactly like yours bro, it feels like i should forgive to stop myself from bitterness and hate inside.

no i didnt send any follow up text. glad idont have to restart to day 1. but still, i feel i was better off ignoring.

yea just sent that, i sent it after 3 hours. i feel so positive lately, but wtf, didnt i just break nc with that? i forget that i shouldnt contact her whatever happend in 60 days, oh man...

day 36 been reading many encouragements here. feeling so positive lately. she just messaged me said happy eater to me. how should i respond? i feel bad if ignore her in this easter day i should at least reply happy easter too, how do u think?

jinni, dont bother interpreting her quote or her words, women are drama queen, and cant be understood thru their words. dont fall for her trap, she might be baiting u. be careful. i used to interpret in my past and broken relationship, and i did fall to those traps, i contacted, but her...

i started to think on her side, its a great accomplishment too for her, not contating me for 34 days. i just feel like wtf whose side is doin this nc, its like she is doing nc to me.

34 days now. she havent contacted me. im feeling much better now. been hitting the gym, spinning plates. but still sometime, those bad feeling struck again, i remember how ungrateful she was to me, is this normal? ive been 34 days. i thought in 30 days i will completely moved on...

beatjunkie, keep strong bro, i know how it feels like. i did use pity when she broke with me. i said that my father and mom were fihtig so hard, that they almost divorced, but thats not lie, it was the truth, but yes she seemed doesnt care much. i chained smoke like, about day 10 it was so...

beatjunkie havent hear from u again. how u doing keep strong bro.. been thinkig to text my ex, i dont know, i cant bear it if she need support. i want to support her. she looks like a weak girl, thats why i want to support her, protect her, make her happy.

yes, thats better.

if u send friend to take he dog, im afraid she will think that u are still afraid or weak, but if u can make her belive thay u re too busy so ucant take the dog urselves, go for it.

thats true beatjunkie. its better if u cancel the meeting, but if u still decided to go, act cool, dont be emotional, or be an emoional tampoon, its unatractive. keep us posted. share what happen here and how u handle the meeting.

since i met with my ex's mom, and she fed me with those BS, my mind is ****ed once more, yes, i start think it deeply, and wonder does she miss me, etc. day 26 now.

haha glad u didnt send that drunk text. what is BS btw?