I saw this post on LP and some of the responses to her thread both from the male and female camp were hilarious. Some women really like to have their cake and eat it. The thread is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/458167-why-won-t-he-pay
Yeah and she will detect it. I think having a two strike rule with flaking is fair enough. Life happens and if she flakes once with a reasonable explanation, she should get a pass. A second time and you should probably next her. However, a girl that is very interested will also counter offer...
28 years old and never dated. Infatuated with a woman entering her early 30's and is probably seeking a beta provider. What could possibly go wrong? May the Lord guide your soul.
When you are confronted with any issue, think about what outcome is better for you as a person. I used to be such a f*cking "nice" guy. Not just to girls either but to everyone. For example, I would be at work and a manager would ask me to stay over. I wouldn't want and was probably tired but...
I kiss closed but that was it. It started snowing hard and she had to drive an hour downtown for an appointment but she suggested a second date so I'll hit her up during the week and set it. I'm definitely going to escalate harder. I'll post updates then.
Funny enough, your post was accurate. Lol. Yup. Her other options didn't work out. We ended up just meeting tonight because it will be too cold tomorrow to go out.
She kept apologizing about flaking and was like she was really busy with work and stuff and how she was "trying to get a guy out...
Forgot my password so I just made this account to post an update.
So I eventually replied to her and this was the convo:
Me: nothing. just studying and finishing up some work.
Her: How has ur week been
Me: Listen to me, (her name). I'm a very busy man and flaky girls really turn me off. I...
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