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I think most of this seems like common sense and can be summarized with: don't eat where you ****. I'm dubious about #5 and #6. Why do you need to lie your ass off? Once you've been tagged as a liar, you're reputation takes a downfall generally.

I thought I would share something that works for me: kissing. I find that the sooner you can kiss without being creepy the better. Once you manage to close, things get *a lot* easier. All barriers are pretty much gone if you kiss long enough. Just to be clear, I just mean kissing on the cheek...

Yay! Just had sex with someone from the net. We started kissing right when she walked in and had sex for a good while and then talked some (pillow talk). It was really fun and simple. She had an orgasm and so did I. She's pretty open sexually and we might try to arrange a threesome.

What about my mindset? My first approach was representing who I was, the honest approach. I contacted the women and told them bluntly that I was writing to them to have sex with them. This resulted in me getting generally rejected. Interestingly, for some of them, a few replies later some of...

Hello guys, My, it's been four years since I've been here. I'm 37 now and as much as I'd rather not be, I guess I'm nearing the ''mature man'' status. I don't think I'm meant to be in a long term relationship. I've tried but I always end up being attracted to other women after a while. Being...

Hello guys, (the first part is me rambling, if you want the "important stuff" go straight for the 10 things/recommendations). It’s been quite a while but I always felt that I got so much feedback from this website that it would’ve been selfish of me not to reciprocate at some point in...

Gather around my friends and I shall tell you a tale. So following the last flake, I was more resolute than ever to cut to the chase next time around. There was this girl, 26, on the dating website I told you guys about. Anyway, I decided to go as directly to the date as possible and pretty...

An interesting read. When I arrived here, I was actually unsettled by the nature of the threads. Judging from the front page, a lot of threads aim to get some emotional support for some difficult situations. Other threads are meant for members to share their individual frustrations and...

Hey guys, You guessed it, she flaked. Sent me a message saying: [i]After some considerations, I don’t think we’re looking for the same thing… I’m surprised she doesn’t mind playing yo-yo with others like that. Saying she won’t meet up then she will then she won’t. Doesn’t seem like she has...

She didn't reply to my invitation. Oh well, I won't pursue her further, she's had her chance. Have you guys had any success Tinder ? Seems more direct and less of an hassle than regular OLD.

I haven't asked for her phone numer (I read your message too late dasein). I just set up a date for next... Monday. I'm not free until then. I usually like getting a number in case she stands me up. I'll take a risk this time around. The bar isn't far form my house so it won't be too much of a...

Alright, she wrote back. Here’s what I did. I wrote her another message. Here’s an approximate translation. Hey you It’s too bad you’d rather stay in your shell like that. You really seem like a good find compared to the rest of the women on this website (I have trouble translating this). I...

True dat! She replied: I just think that meeting without first introducing myself seems like a one night deal to me. I'm sorry, I'm really suspicious about this website. I'm convinced it might work but I'm a very sensitive person and afraid I might get hurt. I replied with my phone number...

Alright, back to the drawing board (a bit). I invited another woman for a drink in the first message. She replied: “already?”. I think the first message might be just a tad too fast? I’d like to read your opinion. How can I salvage this so that I don’t end up being sucked in an email exchange...

Very true. You had the opportunity twice and decided not to act on it. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Also, don't go kidding yourself that you preserved any moral virtue here. You let her sleep with you and kiss you while knowing she had a boyfriend. You also chased her after. Time to...

I think that part of the reason why a very direct approach seems to be work is that it keeps things simple. It creates a good vibe for setting up a date. I’m under the impression that if you start writing long messages, the whole thing suddenly gets more complex. The more you communicate, the...

Wow... that's pretty harsh. Some courage one shows when safely hidden behind a nickname huh? I think Epsi is on to something with his direct approach, yup.

Ok, I'll try without the first sentence. I guess not everyoe is into my wacky sense of humour. :) Actually those women I have already contacted. They read my message, check my profile but don't reply. Which is why I think there's something wrong with my profile. EDIT: (also, I found the rep'...

@Costin : Hello! I would prefer if you created a new thread if you don’t mind ;). I can easily see how it would be easy to keep track if we all start interacting about different situations in the same thread. You’ll also get people to help you, the OP, with your conundrum as opposed to getting...

She deleted her profile before I wrote her anything. @pdx1138: Hi! I won't go over 2 messages (including the first message) from now on. It's not worth it I don't think. I'm glad it's working good for you though! I'm still unsure about the compliment... I mean, not sure it's such a good...