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Same goes with sex. Fail to escalate, a woman may start thinking "I'm not sleeping with him, so I must not be attracted to him."

Not all chicks are banging or seeing a bunch of dudes at once. Some are, sure, but to say the vast majority are doing so is a pretty broad statement. Any time I'm seeing a new girl, I just assume she's probably dating around, but that's more a function of keeping expectations in check and...

In my experience, once you've been seeing a girl for awhile, texting throughout the day is pretty standard. I mean, you don't need to have entire conversations that go on all day, but some texts here and there throughout the day are just fine. Some girls like to text you all the damn time...

Just because you have money and status doesn't mean you have any game. Especially in college, since any money or status you have probably has nothing to do with anything you've done personally. And you really don't need much game when there's free-flowing everclear punch and 19 year-old girls.

College is such a different animal than the dating world after college. People start valuing different things in their dating and relationship choices, and the social environment is totally different. Yes, the same general qualities that make a man attractive will still hold true, but I'm...

Right...I'm just saying if you wait to escalate to sex for too long...there will be no ltr. You are correct...a relationship based on pretty much just sex usually doesn't work out. Been there done that.

Whatever your goal is with this girl...unless it is platonic friendship...you will not achieve it until you have sex. Generally speaking, the sooner you sleep with her, the better. I could write ten pages on why that is, but many others who are smarter than me have already done so.

Joe is pretty much right. You don't really even need to play games or be unavailable. Just live a full and interesting life and a woman will want to be a part if it. It's a lot easier when you are actually busy. Don't overthink it regarding who is asking who out more. Just remember you're...

It's totally normal to have emotions. Men aren't robots. But as a man letting your emotions run your life and your decisions will not get you very far with women usually. The thing is, women's emotional swings are actually a big part of what draws us to them. It's a big part of what makes...

Those things are all easy to say, but you should also take the time to figure out what you can improve upon going forward, otherwise, in many cases, the same thing will happen in your next relationship. Eventually, you should get to a point where you don't hold bitterness to an ex. The only...

You're fine dude, just sprinkle some more rapport as was suggested. The worst thing you can do is start worrying if you screwed up. She obviously likes you a lot, so just stay in control, don't play games, and enjoy the relationship you have.

She isn't exhibiting bad behavior, so just roll with it. If she starts getting super jealous or passive aggressive, a different approach may be required. I just went through something similar. I agree with Exception...having a talk with her about it when all she is doing is wanting to spend...

How did she flake? You didn't have plans. Not responding to a text is not flaking. If you aren't good at texting, minimize your use of it. Pick up the phone, be upbeat, and ask her out. Calling on the phone sets you apart from the herd. For some women, yeah, they get weirded out by phone...

Agree with others. It's reasonable to be upset after a breakup for a period of time. And for a time, other women won't really help you sort out your feelings and get your head on straight. But 4-5 years is a long time afterwards man. Other women aren't really a great fix in the short term...

This isn't exactly a really bad problem to have, you know. I mean, if you're into her, and she's that into you, good things. When it might become a problem is when/if she starts becoming jealous of your time or suspicious or starts giving you a hard time about the amount of attention you pay...

Sure...unless he actually treats her well...which might make her question what he sees in her...which makes her think he must not be that great... Jus sayin

Yeah the V-Card is tricky and I agree with other posters as to why. It's funny how that works the other way with non-virgins. I dated a girl briefly who had been in an 8-year relationship. The second time we hooked up, she said she had never had an orgasm from intercourse. To say that she...

If she's got low self esteem, she probably won't be with a high quality dude anyway.

I don't know if it's about dating down, per se. It seems like it's more a case of if you are fulfilling her emotional and physical needs, she is a lot less likely to cheat. If she values what you are giving her, she will be less likely to cheat. If she doesn't value what you are giving her...

What everyone else has said notwithstanding, it sounds like you really don't like this girl that much...so why go through all the emotional turmoil and warfare?