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hmm, good point.

I've held off from IMing her for a while today and she IMs me that she's "so exhausted". I said, "me too". I really sense a flake out coming up.

Well I'm not paying for the next date if we do go out to dinner or a bar or whatever. I think I made that clear with her even though I said it under the guise that I'm playing around. I like your idea of inviting her to my house for a movie for the 2nd one, if it reaches that point. I...

I'm just in it for the experience. And by the way, I'm not taking her to a fancy place. At the most, I'll be out $25 and I'm fine with that. Understood. I was thinking I should do kino and other sexual innuendos as well. But, I'm on the fence on whether or not I want to kiss her. She has...

why not? i don't really have much to lose. i don't really know this girl and she's not in my circle of friends. in a way, i am trying to use this experience to learn from it. and if it works out, then hey, that's an added bonus and surprise.

sound advice. what you said is kind of what my gut is telling me. but honestly, i really don't expect her to follow through tonight. I fully expect her to give me some excuse as to why she doesn't want to have dinner tonight. She may say she's too tired from the long commute or that she's...

right. if she flakes on me again then she's cut off completely. but my post is in reference to me NOT blowing it with her tonight if the date actually happens.

I can't find my original post about this girl whol LJBF'd hours before our first date. If you can find it, please reference it. I contacted this girl off OKC a few weeks ago. We were supposed to go out on our first date a couple of Friday's ago but she cancelled on me a few hours before the...

I don't think it's from being with a lot of dudes. I went out with my ex-ex GF for 3.5 years. She was not a wh0re and definitely did not sleep around. In fact, she was the sanest girl I've ever dated. Her pvssy had a very pungent smell that sometimes turned me off. And I love going down on...

That's actually a pretty good idea. I'll have to try that. But, if she doesn't have Words with Friends, I'll have to call her up. lol.

Sound advice. Thanks again! But, when we were "hanging out", at times there was more than just "2 minutes prior to secks, 3 minutes of secks, and 1 minute after secks". Occasionally, there were instances where either she stayed the night at my place or vice versa. oh well. this may be a...

That's true. Good point. Let's say she does ask, point blank, why I'm hitting her up. I'm not sure what else to say except "Because I wanna hang out". You think that would be enough without saying too much?

Ok, cool. Will do that. Thanks.

#1 - this happened over a year ago, so it's kind of moot that they were added to my Facebook page. The ex has been removed but the FWB is still there. I hardly use FB anyway. #2 - so you recommend keeping a FWB in a relationship? hmm... What's the point of being in a LTR then? #3 - so what...

A little over a year ago, I had a FWB. It was probably the best FWB I've had. There was never any drama and it was always known between us that we would never be in a relationship with each other. I met her on match.com. I then met someone on match as well (who ended up my GF later) and I...

Ok, lesson learned. But you know what? She kept on reaching out to me. I guess it doesn't really matter since I was available? I tried to do a search on this site to get some ideas on the best way to handle IMs but didn't really find a much. If someone could kindly post some links here I'd...

Ok, will do. The really odd thing about this woman is she only communicates with me via IM. We've texted each other a couple of times. She said she is like this with everyone, not just me. I don't get it. I don't have virtual relationships with anyone. Since we're both logged into IM at work...

Yeah, I kind of figured that. Oh well. It seems like I must've stumbled on a box of Special K because pretty much all the women I've been trying to date have been flakes. lol. So now what? Should I remove this girl from my life? Block her on gchat? Defriend her on Facebook?

Hi, this is my first post here. I've been lurking on this site for a while and have learned a lot but I still have more to learn. I'm posting because I am in a situation that I've never been in before and wanted some opinions and advice. This may be a long story so I'll do my best to keep it...