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I'll follow this advice. :) I'll give a report at the end of it all! Like always, thanks again, Sosuave.

I am well aware that I have an ego, but I am willing to listen to reason, it's exactly why I'm here. If giving her an ultimatum is going to bite me in the ass, what do you guys suggest I do?

Don't get me wrong, I am not changing my lifestyle. I am the exact same person I am in or out of relationship, outside of me not fvcking other girls. I have been in two of them since my red-pill and I learned how I am in and out of the relationship. And please READ my post, I clearly say there...

While there is blue-pill and red-pill, that doesn't mean that every guy on the planet will react to the knowledge the same way. I have done the exact same thing you are doing now for the past year and I feel NOTHING, because you crave for different things than I do. I completely respect that...

That is some solid advice guys, I really appreciate it. In terms of everything we discussed, AF really hit the mark when he mentioned being jaded. Let me just make a few things clear before though: - In no way do I consider her to be above me, both in outward physical appearance or emotional...

Thank you for the harsh honesty. Yes, I realize that the fact that she is cheating on him with me is a red flag and should probably be testament to her character. I am fully aware that there is no such thing as 'the one', this girl has plenty just like her with the same good qualities, I am...

I think that the early mid 20s is a perfect time for dating. Keep in mind that I live in Europe and I don't know what it's like in the US, but here, the girls understand your financial situation when you are in your 20s. Now, if you're 30+, still live at home, have no job or car, yes, you're...

You are all correct, my rational mind says that this is a phase and that it will pass. I probably have molded the perfect image of her in my mind, out of proportion to what she is in reality, although I can't see it now. I still have to ask though, we all came to this site for different reasons...

I moved to Spain a couple of months ago for career purposes, and I ended up in a shared house with an HB9. I told myself that I would not **** where I eat, and keep it strictly platonic. At this point in my life, I was consistently dating, fcking, and completely focused on my career. However, as...

Bombshell HB9.5, have met a couple of times, she moved to another country. Told me she'd be in my country for two weeks, texted her a couple of days after she landed, didn't get a response till a week later (Low Interest). Text back and forth is literally a couple of days in between every time...

Thank you for the honesty guys. I needed to hear your opinions to validate what my instincts are already telling me. I keep thinking that I'm progressing and then I come back with stuff like this. I am truly doing my hardest to work on myself. I started a business, built a team, created a union...

Currently dating 4 other women, have the option to fvck 2 FB's whenever I want, but I literally don't want to. There is one I have worked with (HB9), went on a date with and spoken to for 8 months. I expected to keep it scrictly as a friendship due to common social circles and work, but I can't...

It seems to me that you are placing a bit too much importance on getting the girl through "conventional" means. The moment you feel that you might be interested in a girl, do not have any contact outside of setting up the date and the actual date. You need to have a life of your own which...

I think I might have explained incorrectly. The girl is an HB9, definitely, however I do not want her. The reason why is quite simple, because from observation, experiences and instinct her personality is quite **** and by now I have learned to trust just that. I do have to admit that my ego got...

There is one girl in one of my master classes that I find an HB9, appearance wise. In this class, my social value is extremely low. I know a minority of the class, the course given is probably my worst subject so I get put on blast every time I'm asked questions and I'm generally quiet because I...

I said I was going to give an an after-action report, here it is: We met up on Sunday, regrettably it was in a social setting at first. We were invited by an acquaintance of ours, and I decided to cook. I generally like cooking, so it's fine. I had her help out and realized I needed to get her...

Thank you for the honesty, brutal directness is the only thing I appreciate. I completely understand what you mean and you are right. I took back control of my frame and I set something up with her this Sunday. I also believe that I was too distracted, because there were girls all around and my...

We have gone on a date already, and things have been going on for a while. If you actually read the post, you'll see that I said we don't work together anymore. The situation was also already cleared up, so I'm not sure what kind of value your post has, if at all. Anyhow, thanks.

You guys are both right. If I want to ever improve further I need to learn how to deal with situations like these. Controlling the frame and choosing not to let it affect me the way it is. I am going to choose not to care about what happened, and go back to treating her like I did before...

I agree that messaging her was quite stupid, I realized it the second I sent it, but my inhibitions were quite down due to the alcohol. As for my interest in her, really, it has dropped hard. That is exactly why I am trying to justify what I am feeling towards her now, and I in no way spilled my...