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Precisely.

Yes, I was looking for a LTR which was my mistake in the first place. I realized recently that I should instead just always aim for sex, and whatever comes naturally if she's worth it. Instead all this time I put sex on second place, which was a huge mistake as I've learned the hard way. Was...

It was getting really close with one of my plates, everytime we were together it was kissing, touching and dry fvcking, last time she said she wanted me to sleepover, she said this twice. Today, I wanted to confirm if everything is still on and I get this.. Me: let's have a sleepover at yours...

Small update: I started pulling back from her, not initiating any contact whatsoever and generally just focus on myself. The first day I did this, I went from overly sexual, kind, affectionate and dominant to straight up being cold and kind of ignoring. I noticed she noticed this immediately...

First, don't think too much about what to do, how to do it and when, trying to force game is just going to backfire on you. Second, her giving you a counter-offer after a flake is a sign of Internet, but medium level of interest. You don't want that. If you keep accepting the fact that she is...

I completely understand what you're saying, but if I remain the same throughout her previous behavior, how will she know that her current behavior is not okay and that she needs to bring her A game if she wants to keep me? My behavior around her is normally constant physical allure, I touch...

Man, this post has made me so paranoid. I was fine and clear, but I can't get that whole situation out of my mind now. First of all, her house is extremely small, where the **** did this guy sleep? And second of all, her phone is password protected, how did this guy (who she only recently met)...

Haha, normally I would think the same, but that is not the case here. Even though I find it weird that he stayed over at hers, when I was at her place he dropped by. As he stepped into the house, she laid back on top of me, my hand on her ass, fondling her hard and me deliberately kissing her...

She was looking and you acted jealous, why? In any case, you decide where the line stands from just looking to actual disrespect towards you, but being jealous about it is counter-productive. You have no reason to be jealous about some other guy, because jealousy just shows that you feel...

I understand what you mean, but next time you come across an opportunity like that, remember that regret. You chat up a cute girl, but you don't ask for her number? You'll be obsessing about it for at least a day, and you will always hold that regret thinking 'What if?'? You chat up a cute girl...

That's a very good reminder, thank you. So far, this girl has never flaked on me even once, once we agreed on doing something she made absolutely sure she was there on time. To be honest, I flaked on her twice, because at the time I gave other girls priority. Just because this happened though...

This is solid, thank you. By the end of the night she said that I could sleep at hers next time, so I know how that is going to end up. The fact that she kept avoiding kissing is just gnawing inside, because the last time that happened, I knew the girl had massive baggage and just wanted to...

I was at her place today, and about ten minutes after we got in she apologized about that text. Some flatmate of hers is staying at her place for a few days until his bed comes in and he grabbed her phone and sent that, but she went off on him after that she said, I said it was fine and didn't...

For the past 6 months or so I have been continuously dating on and off, created a large social network, raised my own value with people in my own surrounding and in my own eyes and generally I am just following my dreams and ambitions, but this ****ing girl.. I met her 6 months ago, she is an...

I love how you masterfully controlled the entire interaction from the start. Experimenting, stepping out of your comfort zone, being emotionally calm and in control of yourself during the process is one of the best ways to improve and learn new things. Thanks for sharing, keep at it!

That cleared things up for me perfectly, thanks. I'm done with these self-entitled princesses who believe they can get away with and do anything. Onto greener pastures.

In all honesty, in my mind I have already set this one aside and nexted her. But, I have this gut feeling that I am missing information, and I would like your perspective on this.. I have been spinning this one plate for a while, and a few weeks back I confronted her because I found out that...

I think I am pretty sure what the answer to this is, but for a lack of assertiveness at this point and being in a weaker position I could use your thoughts on this. I went NC with a girl I dated about 4 months ago. The reason for this is because she was being an attention wh*re, trying to get...

I would let this one go. The fact of the matter is that you dropped the ball at the end of the night, it was your one job to ask for her number in order to show actual interest. Trying to get her number through, what cannot be viewed other than FB-stalking, will come off as desperate and...

I said she invited me to her house, I did not say I actually went. I was not that interested back then due to other plates. But, I do understand what you mean, this confusing bs needs to stop.