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Thanks for taking the time to give advice guys. I'm just gonna say, it's fine, get better and leave it at that. If her interest level is that low, I'm not going to waste my time and energy into her. Plenty of other prospects around for me thanks to everything I've learned and absorbed from...

So, I met this girl about two weeks back. The attraction is there, I've played my cards right and all that. Last monday, I asked her out on a date for today, she agreed and seemed quite excited about it. (It's basically a class for Bachata, which I was planning to go to anyway, but asked her to...

You guys are indeed giving some solid advice. This is the reason I come here every time I'm stuck, thank you all. For now I decided to take my distance from her, withdraw attention and focus on other things. I'll see if she comes around.

Alright, got it guys, she's not exactly just a plate anymore, it's gotten a bit more serious since then, to the point of exclusivity. Either way, I think I get the point. I texted her 'Alright, got it. :)' as a response and I left it at that. I'm just going to pull back and withdraw my...

So, there's this girl that I have been seeing for a while, she has been one of the plates, but as time passed the rest came to fall. I hope I am not developing oneitis. Anyhow, this girl has a group of 'friends' which I absolutely do not like. These group of people have wronged me in the...

It's all good now.

I'll definitely keep that in mind and try to work on it, thanks!

First, I'd like to thank you guys for taking the time to show me your thoughts. Personally, I think you are all right in a sense. It could have been that my C+F attitude came at the wrong time, but at the same time I didn't want the conversation to get into her pace. I actually enjoy having a...

I texted her yesterday evening, but she didn't respond. So, I am not going to go after her. It's a little weird, but they're not all meant to be. Anyhow, I am going to focus on other girls instead, if she comes around by then, fine, if not, then so be it. Anyone agree?

I was considering to move the date until after New Year's, but I had a feeling it would make her lose interest if I waited too long. That's why I thought it would be a good idea to plan something this weekend. So, if I just waited it out until after New Year's, should I still call her and just...

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So, that's how a boss does it.. No jokes, that's some really good footage right there. Keep doing what you're doing, way to show how suave you should be to take what you want.

I really want to thank you both, I really appreciate you taking the time to give me advice. I just needed someone to tell it to me directly, yes, you're right. I am her plaything at the moment, she is manipulative and I should go after what I want. I am going to cut my ties with her and move on.

I've been thinking of doing this.. For some reason I just feel like I'm some kind of support beacon for her and as soon as she gets her own back here I'll just be kicked to the curb like some stray dog. Should I just ignore her and move on? Or stay in touch with her? I just don't know. What I...

Problem solved, thanks!