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    Okay, is my game this awful?

    Trying to pick up a girl, no matter what the result is, is natural and doesn't give any bad reputation (as long as you are respectful, of course). It is more likely to get bad reputation if you are too timid and don't act confidently. Don't care too much, if you don't feel awkward, she won't...
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    Unofficial relationship, girl flirted toooo much with a guy

    I don't like long relationships in general, few weeks/months and then break up because of some good reason (like leaving town) and still keeping the vibe and only nice memories works best for me. The girl is supposed to be my girl actually, even though not all of our friends know about it. If...
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    Okay, is my game this awful?

    About Harry's post, from my personal experience : 1.Some girls give Facebook first and after some nice text session, agree for a date. 2.If the girl doesn't accept the date or counter-offer, she's not interested, for sure. 3.If she doesn't accept the kiss, may just want it slow - sometimes...
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    Unofficial relationship, girl flirted toooo much with a guy

    Hey guys, haven't been here for a while... A month ago picked up a girl. We are leaving the country within a month and will break up then for sure, but now we're still in some kind of relationship, even though unofficially (she sleeps regularly at my place, spend lots of time together, etc)...
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    (Probably) the biggest embarrassment in my life

    Thank you for the replies, guys. However, I couldn't handle it, so texted her... Told her several times to decide if she wants to come back or not, but she was just repeating 'I feel bad since Saturday', 'I want, but you make me hurt', 'I must find someone who appreciates me' and so on...
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    (Probably) the biggest embarrassment in my life

    Hello, guys! Big trouble over here, need soon really good suggestions for this one... There was a girl whom I liked a lot and whom I finally picked up 3 weeks ago. She is a serious girl and looked to be a lot into the relationship. However, she comes from a very conservative background and is...
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    Do you keep your eyes closed when make out with a girl in a club?

    OK, guys, eventually I picked up the hot chick who refused my first date kiss. We went to some disco few days ago with two other guys and there I made out with her. Thanks to everyone who responded in my other threads - your suggestions were very helpful - even though she didn't let me do it...
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    How to determine if it is a date or just a friendly meeting?

    Guys, something strange happened. The girl called me yesterday and I'm not sure if she asked me out or not. I deleted her phone number after the embarrassing kiss-try last time, so didn't recognize her initially. -Hi, are you in [Some sea city, where we were supposed to hang out together. Our...
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    First date in an R'n'B club, have no idea what to do there...

    Failed... The girl gave me mixed signals, I guess just wanted to have some fun and get a nice friend. Here is the report: We met at 11PM at some place in town. Then had a walk for about 40 minutes and got to the disco. The party started at about 1AM and we had nice talk until then. She said she...
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    First date in an R'n'B club, have no idea what to do there...

    Thank you for the thorough response, ebracer05, I guess I owe you two beers at least for it. When I go to salsa parties, usually try to tease girls when I dance, talk for a while with some of them after that and eventually ask for a phone number. It just happened that I didn't have the...
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    First date in an R'n'B club, have no idea what to do there...

    So, I know this very cute girl from a salsa club - I danced with her on several occasions throughout the last few weeks, but last Wednesday talked with her for few minutes, introduced myself and suggested her to come to another salsa party on the following day. Yesterday she found me and added...
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    I'm gonna try it!!!! plz keep me motivated!!!!

    Mate, the most important thing is to learn how to enjoy yourself, your life and never stop improving yourself. When you succeed with this, you will get the much needed self-confidence, positive attitude and the hot girls you are looking for. Stop thinking about chicks for a while - think about...
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    Try to kiss-close in the middle of the date?

    Thank you for your responses, guys. Now when I think about it, I guess it also depends a lot on the country you live in and the type of the club you meet the girl at. When I visit a local disco or club in an American college town, I just have to go there with friends, have some fun on the...
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    I'm gonna try it!!!! plz keep me motivated!!!!

    I'm not an expert, but think it will be very useful first to get some interesting social hobbies and use them to improve your conversation/flirting skills and build-up your self-confidence. Approaching random girls in the stores or on the street may be fun and will give you more of the "don't...
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    Try to kiss-close in the middle of the date?

    OK, guys - sorry for rehashing information from some of my previous posts, but just talked to a friend and he suggested something interesting - to try to kiss the girl in the middle of the date instead of waiting until the end. I started properly dating girls very recently (before that I was...
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    How to determine if it is a date or just a friendly meeting?

    Well, apparantely she was free, but still it was just a friendly meeting... First we had a walk, then went to a nice (chill-out) place and had some drinks there. She didn't mention to have a boyfriend and when I asked about her vacation in a foreign country, she said that she has been there...
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    Tell her you are dating other women ?

    I've had one LTR and also tended to be very honest with my ex. In this situation I would say not to talk about the other girls though - it's not her business, you've told her in advance about that and it's just better for both you and her. Just learn how to keep secrets and deal better with them:)
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    How to determine if it is a date or just a friendly meeting?

    Thanks for the reply. I'm leaving the country very soon, so I'm looking just for fun:)
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    How to determine if it is a date or just a friendly meeting?

    Hello again, guys! Few days ago a girl and some guy (looked like her boyfriend, not totally sure though) were sitting on the same table as me at a party. At some point the girl recognized that we've attended some lectures together ~12 years ago and even remembered my name (I guess she watched a...
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    How To Get A Girl Friend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Not sure if it's going to work well if you live in a village though:) IMHO, there are many ways to get rid of the shyness, without getting terribly embarrassed in front of random people on the street.
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