OK, guys - sorry for rehashing information from some of my previous posts, but just talked to a friend and he suggested something interesting - to try to kiss the girl in the middle of the date instead of waiting until the end.
I started properly dating girls very recently (before that I was just hanging out for weeks/months until they take some actions or just get bored). I feel that in clubs I make good impressions now and behave decently - approach successfully, have fun, do some basic kino (basic touches, sometimes holding hands and hugging), get phone numbers (now and then fail miserably though
). When I arrange dates, they usually start good - talk, joke, have good time for about an hour or two. One of the problems is that after hanging out with the girl for so much time, I tend to get nervous and say stupid sKit here and there and eventually (when it's time to kiss-close), it's just dumb. My friend told me to try to act earlier, when the mood is at its peak, but if I try and fail, isn't it going to be extremely awkward (especially if we are sitting in a coffee shop or other public place)? Or maybe I should put time limit for the date, so that it will be still fun at the end?
Details on my last two dates:
Both girls were very hot (8+). Got three dates with the first one (~1.5 hours each), the first date and a half went great, exchanged few flirty TXTs after the first one. At the end of the third date I kissed the girl briefly for a while, but she said that it's pointless, since I'm leaving the country in 2 weeks. Blah-blah. FZ. With the second one I decided to act sooner. The meeting started good, at some point (after about 1.5 hours) I felt I was again getting nervous and asked her to leave (we were alone in some chill-out place), but she demanded to stay more. It wasn't that terrible after that, but I slipped out few extremely dumb comments and felt that ruined the mood. At the end of the date (it lasted 3 hours) I tried to kiss-close, but she professionally reflected the kiss (offered her cheeks, it was kinda funny).
Any comments and recommendations would be appreciated.
I started properly dating girls very recently (before that I was just hanging out for weeks/months until they take some actions or just get bored). I feel that in clubs I make good impressions now and behave decently - approach successfully, have fun, do some basic kino (basic touches, sometimes holding hands and hugging), get phone numbers (now and then fail miserably though
). When I arrange dates, they usually start good - talk, joke, have good time for about an hour or two. One of the problems is that after hanging out with the girl for so much time, I tend to get nervous and say stupid sKit here and there and eventually (when it's time to kiss-close), it's just dumb. My friend told me to try to act earlier, when the mood is at its peak, but if I try and fail, isn't it going to be extremely awkward (especially if we are sitting in a coffee shop or other public place)? Or maybe I should put time limit for the date, so that it will be still fun at the end?Details on my last two dates:
Both girls were very hot (8+). Got three dates with the first one (~1.5 hours each), the first date and a half went great, exchanged few flirty TXTs after the first one. At the end of the third date I kissed the girl briefly for a while, but she said that it's pointless, since I'm leaving the country in 2 weeks. Blah-blah. FZ. With the second one I decided to act sooner. The meeting started good, at some point (after about 1.5 hours) I felt I was again getting nervous and asked her to leave (we were alone in some chill-out place), but she demanded to stay more. It wasn't that terrible after that, but I slipped out few extremely dumb comments and felt that ruined the mood. At the end of the date (it lasted 3 hours) I tried to kiss-close, but she professionally reflected the kiss (offered her cheeks, it was kinda funny).
Any comments and recommendations would be appreciated.
