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    Need some advice from someone outside the situation

    If she is BPD... And she's still doing the guy sleeping on her couch. She could get you fired with a false aggravated sexual assault (rape) accusation. If you let her move in she could go for your house and/or palimoni. You might want to read abit about victims of BPD women; false...
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    Can BPD woman really change?

    Excellent points Squirrels. Have you been in a romantic relationship with a BPD?
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    Regarding the judgemental views of BPD skeptics. And a Christmas toast.

    NJ; good post. "Once they have entrapped you into a relationship, they KILL OFF the persona and you are left with the reality of the psychopath." This is an interesting and workable analogy. The only thing I could imagine as more traumatic than falling in love with a BPD is the thought of the...
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    What's your take on bisexual chicks?

    Reports on the DSM IV criteria for PDs, including BPD, include a concomittance of gender orientation problems. Persons with BPD can often go through a period of gender identification confusion and will participate in same-sex relationships. Some psychologists have stated the BPD woman is...
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    Woman PD's; harsh but a grain of truth

    It has been tongue-in-cheek suggested that BPD and her sisters are Satan's spawn unleashed upon the world to entrapp males abandonned to carnal lust. The life you save may be your own - NC.
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    Woman PD's; harsh but a grain of truth

    Found this on the net today. A bit cold and harsh but there seems to me to be a kernal of truth in the analysis. ### 9 out of 10 sluts suffer from a Cluster B Personality Disorder. If you can learn to recognize Cluster B traits, you can avoid them (suggested) or, if you're disciplined...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    I am reading about serotonin and the intoxication of love. I think I have been an addict since age 16. Than you again for taking the time to read and for your comments.
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    When I first walked in the room I saw a bomb I thought was diffused and laying in pieces on the table. I saw what I wanted to see. Three months later I did run. I have now been total NC for 4 weeks. The relationship and my seeing a girl-next-door transform into a girl I wouldn't give more than...
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    The counseling profession and their mindgames.

    Just sent an e-mail to George Clooney. ### Dear George, Uppsala 26/01-12 Like your work - but stopped watching TV and movies 2 years ago. Nevertheless I have a gem of a story which needs a leading male (you) to make it a...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    She told me during the first few weeks of the 'honeymoon' that she had five years earlier in Norway received multiple psychiatric diagnoses including Bipolar, PTSD, ADHD and BPD. She stopped the medication herself because it 'screwed with her head'. At that early point in the relationship I...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    Yes Gentlemen, Thank you for reading and responding. I agree with each of your criticisms. They are true. Just wanted lay out the truth of why I joined and posted on to SS today. Jophil's past posts directly inspired me to tell the whole truth - so I have. I'll keep reading here to learn...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    Part 3 (of 3) Tuesday morning sent an email to her at work see below: Dear ***** 29/11-11 I can survive two hard kicks to the hip, a knife waved threatenly in my face later to be stabbed through a pizza box onto the kitchen table, being...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    Part 2 (of 3) After two weeks the first really strange thing happened. I was noticing increasingly that she did not discipline her daughter in any shape or form. Putting her daughter to bed meant allowing her daughter to literally fall alseep in front of the TV and then physically carrying her...
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    My story and theory about BPD [very long] part 2

    Part 1 (of 3) BPD. As related to the relationship I just got out of (only three months long from first date to live in to break up) - first hand experience can be an honest teacher rivalling even the second hand information of books by professors. She: History Was sexually abused by two men...
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    The official Borderline Personality Disorder thread [Merged]

    Eulogy to Jophil28. He was the most insightful, intelligent, humble poster about cluster B women on any site anywhere. Rest in peace my good man, you are sorely missed. I truly wish I knew you IRL.
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    Jophil. Must read especially for Master DJ's.

    Greetings Don Juans. I joined this site today in order to access more posts by Jophil, specifically about cluster B women. SS had a sincere, humble guru in Jophil. A truly fine human being. Intelligence in the wilds beyond compare. Every post held a gem of true wisdom. I never met him but I will...
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