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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    yes i agree southern california has beautiful women maybe more so than new york however they'rre not as stuck up as the new york women types.. thats why i didnt mention them.. i generally find the equivalent sex and the city type cali girls are more easy going than the new york types.. i.e. if i...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    i agree with you, the problem im having like with the HB from yesterday is that they try to switch plans to dinner instead of drinks etc.. i thought i was being dominant saying i dont pay for dinner till they're gf's but i just came across cheap in my text and got next'd by her. yes she was...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    it's more that because they are high maintenance sex and the city type women who live on the upper east side west side of new york they're accustomed to guys taking them expensive dinners drinks weekends away etc etc.. thus they become spoiled and get used to a lifestyle they no longer can...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    haha mike i already tried this! i said i had a business dinner prior and scheduled the date for after 8.30.. you know what they do? they postpone eating to much later so you go for dinner. they're really sneaky in these rich areas. splitting a bill is not an option either. it's not just...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    they sleep with guys with loads of money spoiling them AND they sleep with really good looking guys. i'm neither. they're just high maintenance women.. they may be attracted to you.. but they wont let themself give themselves away cheaply.. the lure of getting expensive meals supercedes her...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    my point is where i live is a rich area, it's full of sex and the city type high maintenance girls expecting expensive dinners.. they are super hot.. much hotter than the regular girls on the treet who will put out after buying them a drink as you say. my point is.. nexting doesn't get you to...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    yes i know, my point is you cant do those things with these high maintenance sex and the city type chicks.. they're used to being expensively wined and dined and accustomed to it and expect it.. i know you should avoid these women cos they only want some financier but my point is how does one...
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    how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

    as per my other thread this is more a general question i have which i've been stumped on for years. how do you avoid taking some high maintenance chick (you know the sex and the city type of women) you start dating to dinner if she makes the suggestion? the main reason is these women expect to...
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    she appeared to have high IL now she doesn't

    yes you're right, i naturally am courteous and thoughtful and polite (afc behavior) cos i was brought up that way so i seem to compensate by being sexually aggressive or avoid trying to do anythign expensive (i actually only spent $10 on this chick in total) and i wasn't going to take her for...
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    she appeared to have high IL now she doesn't

    i've taken a lot of this in as i see a huge number of errors in what occured. she controlled the frame from the start and because i was trying too hard she took advantage of it. the thing is, i had a similar incident a year ago but not as quite bad.. women seem to manipulate and control the...
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    just had a date with a 40 year old single mom, what you reckon?

    i see, i'll remember that next time, thanks :) in case i do forget to ask that 'what are you looking for question?' first, what should i say? i was thinking 'same thing you're looking for' then give a cheeky smile.
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    Your GF going out with male friends

    when women say they dont have many gf's cos girls are 'b1tchy' that's why she has guy friends cos she doesn't want to talk about make up and shopping etc.. is this still a crock of sh1t? i kind of agree with it that yeah girls are annoying and b1tchy to be around and can see the appeal why...
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    Your GF going out with male friends

    how early should you lay down the law.. like literally how early? secondly, in what sort of way do you say it? it always comes across as needy and controlling when i do it and insecure.
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    Your GF going out with male friends

    what if the girl isnt close to her family anymore as in she's left home at 16 and her friends are her family? and what if her male friends are already married and have kids? i guess this might be a grey area where special dispensation could be given. or if her first bf who she was together...
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    Does the 2 strikes rule still apply even if she counter offers twice?

    i dont know what is the rule in regards to being rude and not replying swiftly enough.. generally speaking if i've been replying within a few hours or by the next day.. any longer it seems a 'hey, sorry for the late reply' is necessary at the start of the text unless i send it before the end of...
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    Is this bullsh1t text wanting me to keep chasing?

    i haven't sent it.. i haven't sent anything, should i respond with something now it's been about 20 hours since? i see what you mean, cos she's scheduling something so far in advance it should make her feel silly. i just feel that it's a test to get me to agree to it, and when i do follow up...
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    Is this bullsh1t text wanting me to keep chasing?

    btw if i send this above, what does this achieve? im contemplating ignoring it and contacting next week. right now im just stewing on what to do. if i dont contact is there any chance she'd offer a time over the weekend?
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    Does the 2 strikes rule still apply even if she counter offers twice?

    what do you mean routinely boring? normally i'd have got back to her by today.. i haven't.. yet. so would waiting till tomorrow to offer the time be better? i think it might create some anxiety on her side and she'll think i'm not interested anymore and wondering why i haven't replied...
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    Does the 2 strikes rule still apply even if she counter offers twice?

    should i wait till tomorrow before i offer the other day/time? usually i'd get back to her by the next day at most, would it work to my advantage waiting till tomorrow or would it more likely antagonise her?
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    Is this bullsh1t text wanting me to keep chasing?

    yeah that's what i usually do, dont know why i offered the same night..i think cos the other plate cancelled. are you saying set up a time with her in advance for next week? that's over 7 days away. What about if i just ignored the message all together and just contacted her next week...
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