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Fellow Don Juans, My good friend and wing Rubato celebrated his 25th birthday yesterday. (Congrats buddy!) I have received some great advice and guidance from the men on these boards over the months. You guys have all been amazing and I hope you can all come through for me once again. In...

First of all, if you do, stop playing World of Warcraft. Even if you're a teenager or one of those guys who claims to "play in moderation," there are better uses of your time and money. You can only rationalize a $15/month investment by devoting a proportionate amount of time into the game. All...

Do or say something that will separate you from other men. Few people realize "how are you" is an invitation to entertain. Never give one-word answers! HB: Hi! How are you? DJ: I'm doing well except for this problem I have. See, I found five dollars on the ground yesterday and I've been...

For me, the only relevant factors in deciding the duration of a sexual experience are: 1) Time elapsed since last orgasm 2) The amount of friction/pressure applied to the penis during sex To the first point, if you haven't released in a while, you may be more sensitive to pressure and orgasm...

Every action a woman takes is made in order to satisfy her personal desires. There is purpose behind everything that she does. If a woman wants to attract a man, she will dress in a certain way, say what she thinks he wants to hear and behave in a manner which she believes will provide her with...

Good points all around. I think my problem might be more confidence than anything else. I know people of all different races that pull well. Short people...fat people...short fat people...it's definitely possible to become successful with women regardless of the perceived handicap. I honestly...

Thank you both. That's possible. I make a conscious effort to avoid using race as a crutch. Just like you said, if a girl isn't interested for whatever reason, you move on. It's just frustrating to have so many experiences similar to the one I described earlier. Also possible. I tried...

Let me start off by saying I am not looking for sympathy, attention or controversy. I am not racist nor do I condone those sort of thoughts from any perspective. What I am is a black man - specifically a black man in America. The following is an account of my experience with race and how it has...

If she believes that you are a high-value man, she will want to show you off. When I use value, I'm not necessarily talking about how you look or what you have. I'm talking about how you make her FEEL. Can you positively influence a wide array of her feelings? A man's value in the eyes of a...

No. This does not matter in a mature, adult relationship. Men are natural leaders and should control the direction of the relationship, but even at that, how you behave in the relationship means more than something as silly as who initiated it. Why would you even want to be in a relationship...

Compatibility is an overlooked part of attraction. In fact, compatibility is one of the most important aspects of Uncertainty Reduction Theory - a communication theory that seeks to explain how strangers interact with one another (the basis of relationship-building). You can't build attraction...

The man sets the tone for the relationship. Do you "let her request" where she wants to go for dinner? Do you "let her request" where she wants to go on a date? No. As a MAN, you LEAD the relationship at all times. Why would you sit around and wait for your girl to work up the courage to ask...

You guys see the word friendship and your brains explode. There's nothing wrong with becoming a girl's friend. If you don't like the word friend, substitute that with someone she is comfortable with, can trust, rely on and listen to. What the fvck do you call that? That's what a friend is...

A girl will not enter a relationship with you unless she knows what kind of person you are. When you see a girl you're interested in, build comfort, trust and attraction. Become her friend. Many guys get so wrapped up in seduction and sexuality that they forget that friendship is the basis for...

Haha I have no clue who that is. Is he an orange juice snob like me? :)

If you don't want to drink, then don't drink. On occasion, I would show up to parties carrying a gallon of orange juice. If anyone says anything (which they won't) tell them OJ is your favorite beverage and you're here to have a good time. The line "I like orange juice better than beer" is gold...

Whenever I hit a lull in the conversation, I usually play a game with the girl. The Cube can take up to 20 minutes if you really delve deep into it, though I think it's a bit too serious to use early on. I have this application on my iPhone called Table Topics ($0.99). It's a list of about 100...

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All those AFC drones who hang around women are not a threat, so why sweat them? Guys who break up with girls and try to get back together are huge AFCs. High-value girls will always have other guys buzzing around them. It isn't fair or practical for you to tell her to swat them ALL away. After...

When you feel upset, preemptively recognize how remorseful you'll be after you've cooled down and thought about the situation carefully. Keep a role model in mind too - how would Jesus/Brosnan/Pook behave in this situation? If that doesn't work, just think to yourself: "Ooh-la-la!" Also, you...