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First thing - becoming a Don Juan entails more than just maintaining relationships with several woman at a time. It is about self-improvement. It's about looking in the mirror and appreciating what's looking back at you. Try to develop the mindset of improving as a MAN and everything else will...

She's still close to her last ex-boyfriend. The guy apparently talks about me and still wants to be a part of her life. She wants to keep him around. That was the deal breaker. Thank you all for your input. I'm moving on to better things.

Thanks for sharing your experience, Agent. I can relate. While a man should lead the relationship, he shouldn't have to scratch and claw for reciprocated attention. It is her job to attract you. For whatever reason, women like HB7 don't understand that nor will they accept that high-value men...

Yes! Both men and women want to feel needed and loved. Maybe it's an ego thing, but it's nice to hear a woman tell you she doesn't want to lose you. The opposite of love is indifference. Showing apathy toward someone will affect them regardless of gender. I'm glad I posted this today - there...

Excellent. I completely agree. Well said. I'm not sure if interest is something you have control over. I have a certain type of girl that I like, but it's not something I consciously decided for myself. The decision to pursue, however, is completely my choice. I'll see if she'll invest in the...

A logical, fair assumption. Assuming this is true, how would a DJ handle this? I would think the average woman has more options available to her than the average man. You can't try to out leverage every woman you're attracted to.

That, plus the fact that she has a lot of guys around her makes me wonder if she is being completely honest with me. She prefers to talk on the phone at night (read: when no one is around). I wrote this off as insignificant as I know other people who dislike talking on the phone. My policy is...

Rubato, my end goal is to be comfortable enough to trust her. Despite everything that's happened to this point, she still has some value and I'd like to see where this goes. I'll be careful to take that advice because I agree in part. Putting my comfort/peace of mind in her hands has the...

Thank you both for the input. I agree this may be an attraction issue. Having her invest in me sounds like the way to go. I'll be at ease when I can confirm her actions match her words.

I've been spending time with this girl and something about her has been bugging me. On a looks scale, she's about a 7, but we share similar interests and I enjoy her company. We've gotten physical on more than one occasion and she told me she likes me. While we're together, I constantly...

Fair enough, ST. Whenever I get stuck or don't know what to do, I rely on "just be yourself" to remind me of what I am and where I need to go. It works so well for me that I wanted to share it with the community.

In reading and listening to all sorts of relationship and seduction advice over the past year and a half, no phrase has stirred up more controversy than the famous "just be yourself" line. Some people hate it. Others love it. Regardless of where you stand, I'd like to take some time to analyze...

Man up, pick up the phone and call her. If you have that much to say, a text message won't do. You shouldn't qualify yourself to anyone - much less a woman. Who you eat with or the nature of your lunch date is none of her concern.

First of all, great journal. I admire your consistency, honesty, determination and charisma. This serves as good motivation to get back in field and step my game up. Having a strong set morals is very important. I've noticed you've consistently respected GFs of friends or girls in committed...

Like height or nice cheek bones, great teeth only matter to those who don't have them. Regarding teeth, I think they only matter if they're really bad or really good. Use em if you got em. If not, improve what you can, but don't let them affect your game.

First of all, I would like to state that your wing is a BRILLIANT, SUAVE and HANDSOME individual! *Er-hem* There isn't anything wrong with giving off boyfriend material vibe. It's just a part of who you are. There is an African proverb that says "All five fingers are not created equally."...

Here are a few you might want to consider. 1. Ice skating / Roller skating - This is a very creative, flexible and memorable date. Pook said charm is treating a woman like a little girl. Tell her you've been looking for the perfect partner to go skating with. If it goes well, it could even...

Hmm...if that's the case, maybe a change of environment is best. Do you travel? Spend a weekend in Chicago, St. Louis, Houston or any similar-sized city and you'll likely find what you're looking for. It is possible you could be associating sexual behavior traits with a certain type of woman...

Well played all around. I don't have much to add except this: women want men wanted by other women. Jon Sinn once said the most uncomfortable way for a woman to find out she is attracted to someone is through jealousy. Dress accordingly then go to this event with girl B and have a great...

There's nothing wrong with being SELECTIVE in who you chose to date. If this becomes a problem or you feel you're too picky, take some time to explore women outside of your 'regular' interests. Porn is very helpful in doing this. If something piques your interest, make a note of it and...