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I agree with Nite. Find something your proud of. Start getting in shape or something. Pick something YOU dont like about your self, and change it in your own way. Let me give you and example of something that happened to me a month ago. So after I finished my first marathon, i mentioned it...

Eh. Think about the positives and negatives of this 'experiment'. What did you gain (what ability?) what did you lose? Try something new, there is NO SURE FIRE way. Try this, treat every one like a friend, not like a potential romantic interest. Just treat them like you would a friend. You...

You could try to just do a few reps of body weight resistance training, when you get the chance. An nice example is the routine Dean Karnazes uses ( Yes Ultramarathon man). He will do sit ups, push ups, or pull ups when he can (Like when he has writers block). But he also has a 4 hours sleep...

Nice advice I would say. I say do what you feel is right man. I have been in similar situation, except I did get the girl. But I got "Can we just be friends" like a hundred times from the girl. So do what you feel is right, and grow from it. That is truly the only way to live. The Bible is a...

So my fellow DJ's, I'll be the first one to admit that I never really learned how to swim or jump-rope. As of late I have really wanted to start doing more to obtain my own fitness goals. I think these two would benefit me with variety rather than just plain ol' weight lifting and machine...

Okay so there is this girl I have been trying to get with. She is the type of girl that I would like to see where things go, good or bad. For the background information this is it: She was with this jock type guy for close to 8 months. They recently broke up for what ever reason. She said...

Alex, the problem here isn't your reputation. The problem lies with in the environment its self. Today I went to my old Middle School. I was a terribly shy and awkward kid back then. So when I got up to speak to all the little kiddies, I sank back into that mindset and its actions. As soon as I...

Alright so for the past few girls that I have asked out, I managed to fail on a few because of the same comment. Now the comment has not killed me entirely, but I've managed to skip passed it easy at one point. The comment is always the same line: "You don't want to be with me, trust me." Now of...

That is the first time I have heard that. Thanks for the tip Aboleo. So if we smile because we are showing that we are one of the group, then we do it to be accepted. If we do it to be accepted, then is this a nurture reflex right? Hypothetically, if we were to take a baby (any baby) and raise...

For the past few days, I started to wonder what a 'smile' really is. It's not that I do not know the effects of a smile. I even know what a smile looks like! (Don't we all??) But what I really am curious about is, how the smile originated. I remember reading something about how animals when...

I was wondering what you guys wear when you work out or exercise. I am starting to take longer runs, upwards from 11+ miles or so. I am looking for different clothing to use. I usually wear compression underwear, for my lower body. I do not wear anything on my upper half, this is where I have a...

I really like what backbreaker has said here. The first paragraph, is more a humanistic approach. Which is what I like to believe in my self. The second is something that I have been taught by my mentor. Let us put it this way to you. People do horrible things to each other. Why? There are...

Give us more detail about your relationship with her. How often do you talk to her, do you text her. Things like that, even if you think they don't matter. (I am not very good at this my self, but I'll try and help.)

Man, I thought my town was small. Well, if you change people are going to notice it rather quickly. That will spark interest in you. Repeat after me, "I WILL NEVER TELL THEM WHY OR HOW I CHANGED!" Learn from my mistake, reveal to much, and you will lose their interest. If you get an...

Well, you can start with what you don't like about your self. Say you're overweight and you don't like that. So you deiced your going to join a fitness program to change it. You do not do this for others, you do it for you're self. There is only one person you should change you're self for...

Okay, thank you Vice. Sorry for the misplacement.

If I can get a mod to delete one of the posts I have made. I accidental posted 2 of the same thread. I was trying to post this last night and I could not find it after I had posted it. So if you could delete one or the other, but not both. That would be great

So, for the past week or two, I have been peddling an idea around. I have mentioned this idea to a few people. This idea is not an original concept, but in its own respect interesting. I have talked to Psychology Majors, mentors and friends about this idea. This is what, I am calling, Project...

Keep up the good work man! I am still starting to get the hang of this stuff my self. But I will suggest something to you. With your number-close try mixing it up a bit. I read some of the approaches, and it seems like, when you ask her to hang out she seems almost willing, then you ask for a...

Sorry, but I forgot to mention one little bit. I decided the day after she had 'friend zoned' me that I would change my self a little bit. Not in the essence of who I am. But instead how I act around others. I decided I am going to try to become more socially confident, then slowly move up to...