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^ Good post! Rocket's got it right on. Sometimes people can be attracted to you physically but not emotionally enough involved to be in a realtionship. Seems a lot of girls have these situations and so do a lot of men. nothing wrong with as long as you don't catch feelings. And it sounds...

Sounds to me like you are simply growing up and attaining consciousnes as to how dark and empty this life can really be. I think this is something that all enlightened people go through at some point and should not be something you shy away from. With all our technology and ability to stay...

Yah it's ridiculous now. I'd say every girl under 25 is infected with this constant contact disease. And the ones from 25-30 are riding the wave and pumping up their value through this. You see so many orbiters "liking" there status now that it's become a joke. But don't forget that these...

I think "true love" representations in extreme mainstream media are completely misleading, misguided, stupid, and nowhere near what real life is really like. Your problem here is putting too much faith in the mainstream. They will always pitch you the easiest cookie cutter version of reality...

Turn it around into something funny about your hearing and how the alchohol impairs it instead of apologizing. You have to imagine that you are ramping up the tension in your interctions and the only thing that apologizing does is show you are boring and predictable and lets all the air out...

"given that the hope of this happening had completely gone from my mind" You just explained why right there!

I've had my experience with one of these and it's NOT fun! They are very manipulative people and they come off as so sweet and innocent that they leave you questioning your own sanity. That Schreiber site is great...I read and reread the articles on there when I was going through my BPD...

Wow...that Asian chick looks very similar to one I dated a coupel years back. They are always so eager to please and easy to get along with. One thing to watch out for though is that while the Asian chicks love there white guys they often come from very traditional families who want to see them...

How do you get over the feeling? You go online and see how many hot girls are on there these days. You line something up with one of them, take em on a couple dates, and hook up at her place or yours. Then you log back on your computer and do it again with another... That level of quality...

Sometimes girls will hook up with yah and hang out like a buddy/fb/fwb but the whole idea of dating is akward and foreign to them. Possibly you just need to escalate when you have the chance and keep it very casual the rest of the time. No more asking her out for dates ar exclusive one on ones...

I'd say that you're targets should in general be the ones travelling by themselves as those women tend to be the more adventerous and have less inhibitions to start with. Whenever I met a women travelling on her own during my journeys it was mad respect to her as i know it's not an easy thing to...

What he said.

Yah it's called a $1000 suit and $100000 car.

A little off topic but a bit of advice i've learnt from POF: When initially chatting these girls up try you best to get her phone number as soon as you possibly can in the natural flow of things. I find a lot of girls get burnt out from the online thing quickly (due to the mass of messages they...

"if kissing on the first date is a major deal to her then what do you think shes going to be like down the road?" That's what i was thinking too and why I was wondering if it was worth the time. It was a shock to me cause I had such positive reaction after the date and the next day. Now...

Don't forget that online girls will get ALOT of messages from very creepy guys suggesting very lurid and gross things so being "Nice" in an online environment is different from the Nice guy disease you may might run into other dating arenas. Maybe add a little edge to the reply email showing...

Good comments guys. Bit more background here....the first kiss I planted was just a silly quick peck on her lips as we we're paying our bill at the bar. I kept my body back and leant in for a quick "european" style one. It just seemed so ridiculous that a women would refuse to kiss on the...

Wondering how many of you've encountered this where the girl tells you up front she doesn't kiss on the first date. Of course we all hear that they dont have sex on the first date but I'd never heard the kiss thing before. Little bakground: Went on a frist date with a POFer last Friday. Took...

I think its better to take that ten dollars and spontaneously spend it on something on the date instead of verbalizing that it's for gas. Maybe a round or two of drinks on you or something of that sort. Always bset when you do this as a non verbal thing imo.

Here's a great article for all those of you wondering at the dangers of FB: http://approachanxiety.com/2011/02/facebook-is-a-deathzone/#more-3068