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You're beating a dead horse, and needlessly so. I am well aware of this problem and am working to fix it, I just don't talk about it. But if you must know, you might've seen in this thread that I mentioned this girl was excited when I mentioned I was shopping around for a place in Philly -...

When she was moving into her new place I mentioned at the time that I was also shopping around for a place in Philly. This was before my priorities changed and I used that money to fund the business I'm building now, rather than blow $1k/mo in a rush to move out. During that time she kept asking...

Alright, so it seems the general consensus is that I'm her backup because she doesn't see me as boyfriend material the same way she sees this other guy. I would assume my living situation is probably the most significant factor - I wouldn't think it has anything to do with optics, since she only...

Yeah, I'm not trying to win her over, I'd just like to understand what the goal was here: The fact that she had sex with a guy sooner than when she was seeing me...despite complaining that she thought all I wanted was sex...and even though she doesn't want a relationship, she doesn't want to...

He's pointing out a universal truth, but he's doing it in a way that demonizes things women find attractive in men; money, power, influence - because men don't find those traits attractive in women. The key takeaway should be to judge people for who they are rather than who you want them to be...

I go to places where it's socially acceptable and expected to approach women; bars, beaches, etc. If I meet someone in my day-to-day (which is rare) I'll approach, but I'm not camping out in grocery stores hoping to run into my future wife.

@BeExcellent

I recall us butting heads before your departure, so I appreciate your willingness to offer me your advice upon your return - looks like I'm the first one as well.

I'm glad the guy who can't leave his wife came to lecture me about being alpha.

Nah I'm not petty like that, the fact that I'm straightforward when it comes to what I want while she's doing all these mental gymnastics is her problem, not mine. If she flakes and I see her when I'm out again I'll just wave hi and continue on with my night. She's already wasted too much of my...

She will almost certainly flake again. I'll Venmo you $5 if she doesn't. Either she's sick, or she's got work, or she's moving into her place, whatever. I've got nothing better on my plate at the moment so I'll call to confirm next weekend, even if only to hear what the new excuse is.

I keep thinking she's not, then she keeps popping up acting like she is - but only so much. I don't care too much about whether she's interested, I'm just trying to understand why she's doing what she's doing...if she's not interested she doesn't have to spend her entire night making out with...

Her actions not making sense is exactly why I'm confused.

This is the only thing that would somewhat make sense to me - if seeing him was more convenient. I know nothing about the guy. She's got almost 200k followers on her Instagram so I'm sure she gets plenty of validation. My ex only had a few thousand and she would regularly get offers to pay for...

No, she wants to stay here. She's been here for a few years and likes the work and just recently got her own place. Everything can be distilled to that. But she was interested enough at one point, and the reason she cited was that she didn't want "just sex", but did just that with another guy...

Last night I went out for drinks with my friends and spent most of my night hanging out with this girl I'd met back in September. Let me give some background: Matched with this girl on Hinge who lives out near West Chester, made plans to hang out when she got back from a NY trip Got drinks...

So this girl agreed to a 2nd date and went 40 minutes to see you after your f*** up...how did you not f*** her?

I would've forgotten about this girl and got back to doing this.

Nearly 6-month old thread revived out of nowhere, I'm sure @jhonny9546 is behind this... EDIT: Yep, he was.

I think he dug it up because I mentioned no longer seeing her in my thread about college bars. While I agree and don't like seeing revived threads, let's not act like jhonny doesn't do this literally all the time...