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    Does Size Matter?

    I'm sure it matters, but in most cases, I'd wager that not having that expectation met/exceeded is more of a disappointment than a complete dealbreaker. I've never had complaints aside from one specific girl off Bumble. We matched several years ago, and the conversation was going in a sexual...
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    Got Steamrolled by a High Bodycount Girl - Want to Learn

    @judy_doesnt_suffer looks like others have already said this, but yeah, you need to address whatever trauma is getting in the way of you having sex. Personally, I'm surprised a girl with this many options slept with you at all, given the fact that you couldn't give her what she wanted not once...
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    FR: The Chase of The Prey

    @Travel memoir21 I'm sure you mean well, but why are you here? This entire forum is dedicated to seduction, sex, dating and love, and yet most of your replies are preachy, holier than thou, and the kind of stuff I'd expect to read on ChristianMingle. You're not getting laid, so why do feel...
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    Nervous Validation

    @jhonny9546 serious question, and I'm trying very hard to ask this nicely: You spend a lot of time reading and reviving very old threads to have conversations that don't really go in any direction. What are you doing in real life? Like are you approaching women? Have you had success with...
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    You're missing the point. It took him several months to set up this date and several hours to muster the courage to go for the kiss. She may have been receptive to it if he had some balls and went for it rather than go for the "consolation prize" since she wasn't receptive to going inside his...
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    He didn't escalate...at all...this read like a romance novel in OP's head, then he threw a Hail Mary when he couldn't even get a first down.
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    A challenge is a guy who's aloof and not outcome dependent. That is VERY different from a guy without the confidence to escalate.
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    He never had her. He was just persistent enough that things finally lined for when she had free time, again, after pursuing her across 3 different channels. Also, his problem wasn't "escalating too soon" - he didn't escalate at all. There was no warm-up, no attraction, he just figured he spent...
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    You mean like how he did just that?
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    How "game" screwed me up (FR)

    I'm gonna agree with @New_Journey , this entire FR is you being too passive @crowolf . Personally, I think this should've ended here. The fact that you randomly added her on Snapchat and then further messaged her on another app means you likely weren't getting the responses you wanted on the...
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    Don’t know what to do in friendzone

    Jhonny why do you keep reviving old threads? Why is this what you spend your time doing, reading things that are half a year old and leaving a pointless reply just to spark another conversation?
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    Quick FR: Escalation

    @nicksaiz65 I think the resistance to sex was BS. This woman and her friend went home with 2 strange men they just met on the street, to have drinks, late at night, and ended up on your bed. She's not stupid - she knows what's about to go down. And the fact that her friend is there as a witness...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    That's fair, I just didn't understand her reasoning. The whole fact that she was interested in me, but doesn't want me over, because she's saving herself for this guy to ask her out, though she clearly doesn't respect him if she's making out with me... Anyway, I'm building a business so if she...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    Just wanted to provide a quick little update. Tried the self-flake thing, basically told her that I knew we were talking about hanging out this weekend but that something came up, rain check, maybe another time. She responded with "no worries" but used 3 S's.
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    Would you consider this a red flag?

    Of course it's a red flag. She's making a demand with an attached ultimatum, not a request. Just keep doing what you've been doing and if that doesn't work for her it's her problem, not yours.
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    I would need to take out loans because the cost of the equipment I'm buying for this business does not leave me much wiggle room. Couple that with student loans and recurring expenses like groceries and gas, then spending an extra $1,000ish per month before factoring in utilities isn't feasible...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    No, he didn't jump out of his safety net to build his business - it wasn't a requirement, as you make it seem. He's younger than me too. He was providing a service and found a way to improve upon it while turning it into something recurring rather than as-needed. He told me he felt like he...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    What's your point? I've struggled and failed plenty. This time around I'm following the guidance of somebody who is successful and has what I want and is teaching me how to do it using the very vehicle he used and still uses to get there. If his recommendation is to minimize expenses by not...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    That's fine, you can draw your own conclusions. Personally, I don't think putting myself in more debt by taking out loans to move out of my parent's place so as not appear as a "manchild" to people online is probably not worth the marginal improvement to my sex life, nor would it set me up for...
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    Help me understand this girl's BS

    The guy mentoring me specifically recommended against that, and I'm glad I listened; everything has cost more and taken longer than I initially anticipated, and if I had to worry about rent and utilities I probably would've needed even longer. He told me that if I'm not paying rent and I can...
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