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I largely agree with this except for the first part. Nobody really talks like that "I like how your outfit is put together, you have a great sense of style". It's better to compliment something about THEM rather than what they chose to wear. Just because you can't do it, don't tell me I can't...

No. I am literally an example of it working...cold approaching allows you to punch so far above your weight that it's not even funny, because most men are pu**ies that need dating apps or excessive alcohol to talk to women.

I wish I could dislike this or something. Some of you just have really pessimistic views on women and dating, and I wonder why some of you are even here.

Absolutely not. I usually open with some variation of what I said above, for the reasons I said above. You want to get to the point where friends will see you go up to these girls and get their number, make out with them, leave with them, etc and when they ask you what you said you won't...

High SMV is a multiplier for success, not a requirement for it. Should he be bettering himself as a man? Absolutely. But he doesn't need to have all his sh** in order to start doing this. Nicely done. Usually when I approach I'll open with something along the lines of "I think you're gorgeous...

This. I just relax, enjoy the interaction, and really listen to what they choose to say. Women do tend to tell on themselves, so I let them.

You need to recognize the rationale you're feeding this guy: Because you can't/don't do this, you're telling him HE can't, even when I'm saying he can, as somebody who does this for 90% of the women I sleep with. I really don't mean to be rude with this, but I don't think you should be feeding...

Looks like most answers have hit the nail on the head already, so I'll just add my 2 cents. It doesn't mean she "doesn't like you enough", some women just don't enjoy that. I had an ex in college who used to spit it into a towel after she went down on me. My brother dated a girl and lived with...

Brother...at 16 I was not attractive...I was tall, but lanky and didn't have muscles or anything because I hadn't started lifting yet. I was just some skinny dude wearing oversized clothes. Cold approaching is literally the bread and butter of what I do, and what I do is get laid a lot. I don't...

I'm actually kinda surprised at how lukewarm the reception has been to this post; alternatives, balance, not worth it, injury potential, shouldn't be there to make friends just work out, etc. Oh well, I tried.

Dude...cold approaching is what I do...it's what I did to get to this point. You know why it doesn't hurt my confidence? Because when you are successful and up making out with some random hottie on the beach at night you're not thinking about how many rejections it took to get there. That was...

Don't bother with him, he's a little jaded right now because he's having some bad times with women from dating apps. What you're doing is correct - you don't wait for the "perfect moment", you just go create one. I'll tell you what you did wrong. First, you didn't ask her name at any point...

You're going to have to do that anyway, so why are you upset specifically at the dating apps?

My god... :rofl:

So do I. But you still see regulars. You still ask to work in. You still ask for a spot. You still say hi. And over time if you like those people you can do this thing called "hang out with them".

Then don't entertain those women. Most of my dates are just grabbing a drink at the bar and seeing how the night goes. Though I do agree with @SW15 that you shouldn't be looking for a wife on Tinder.

I disagree with this attitude. A lot of my best friends I met at the gym. The fraternity I joined I'd chosen because I met a bunch of the brothers at the gym and thought they were chill. My current core friend group consists of somebody I've known since high school because we both played...

Just be ugly!! In all seriousness, every man on this forum should go to the gym. Outside of becoming rich and learning how to approach and talk to women, exercising and becoming physically fit is the easiest and fastest way to see a "return on investment" men it comes to getting girls. Short...

Look what this idiot focuses on... Please @Clockwerk50 and others, stop giving him stuff to reply to. He's an idiot...whom people have told is an idiot...who is unwilling to stop being an idiot...because this idiot wants to find women who still like him as an idiot...since it's too hard for...

I may be in the minority here, but I think these types of romance fantasies are just as bad for women as p*rn is for men. From soap operas to reality shows (The Bachelor) to these Hallmark movies and even 50 Shades...they're all about the emotional rollercoaster of FALLING in love, not STAYING...