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    Protect your neck with these girls...

    I feel so stupid right now... I called up the stripper I've been seeing on and off. We were supposed to go out tonight and get dinner, then watch a couple of DVDs. She calls me up like an hour and a half before the date and says, "I wanna go out tonight, can we go to xxxx?" (a local bar...
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    The classic "She has a boyfriend" debate...

    OK, long situation short: -I've been thinking about this girl all week. Wasn't even into her at first but we seem to have gotten on real well at this party Saturday. -I think there was some mutual interest...she was hanging around me, asking questions, etc... -She has a boyfriend. It's...
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    Girl becoming a mental burden...

    I don' t know if it's unnatural to feel this way, but I imagine it is. I'm not sure what to do about it. I'm sure some of you have seen my posts about the "dancer" I've been dating. We went out to shoot pool, she absolutely sucked at it, so we both got smashed and were making out, but she got...
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    Everyone knows the classic three-day "not too eager" rule, but...

    What if you meet a girl and you get the impression that she just wants to F**K that night, but either her anti-slut defense or her friends or any other number of reasons prevent her from doing it, so you're forced to take her number. Should you jump on it right away and call the next night...
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    How to knock the 9.5s off their pedestals...

    OK I'm curious as to how you can nail the REALLY hot chicks. You know, the ones in the club that everyone's like, "Dayyyyyum." I know everyone's going to come in here and say "neg-hits! ****y and Funny!" but the thing is these girls don't even give you a CHANCE to neg-hit them. If you so much...
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    New girl, new date, need a good INDOOR action date idea.

    OK I called this girl up and set a date for this Tuesday. I had initially suggested taht we go to this neat little theme restaurant, but I'd never been there and she said that she has and it's kinda chuck-e-cheese-ish. So that's no good. So I need a good idea for an action date...only thing...
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    What REALLY bothers me...

    I've actually been going OUTSIDE this site for advice lately. Mainly to a few close friends who used to frequent this place but no longer do. Why? Mainly because I don't trust the opinions of people on here as being EXPERIENCED opinions. And I'm as guilty of this as anyone, but it seems like...
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    Bible is down...

    The DJ Bible is nonfunctional. The link goes to a Swansea University Computer Society "Not Found" page. Any ideas what's up? :confused:
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    Reality Check requested: paying on dates

    This is sort of a field report, I guess, but what I'm gonna do is tell you what happened, tell you what *I* think, and all I really want is a check to see if I'm not missing the big picture here. It's my first date with this girl. I met her at a bar near here, seemed like very high IL. I...
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    The clubs on V-day...yay or nay?

    DO NOT reply to this thread unless you have BEEN TO A CLUB on Valentine's day and have EXPERIENCE. A friend of mine and I were discussing whether the clubs are viable on Valentine's day. He claims that all the wild girls are out looking for someone to hook up with. I was of the idea that...
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    If you want to call up a girl for some sport-sex...

    How do you do it? I mean, do you create a premise for the two of you to get together, or can you just call up and make it apparent that you're interested in SEX and nothing else? In other words, how do you booty-call a girl up to your place for some sexing?
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    Is this site slow for anyone else?

    I know it takes a long time for this site to initially load, and that's from both work AND home. :confused:
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    Is there any proper way to "request services"? LOL

    OK, so say you're making out with a girl, and you get her off, and you want her to "service" you in return. Is there any proper way to "request" it or do you just have to hope she wants to and does it on her own? I'm sorry, I know this has been discussed before, but I'm sitting here, it's...
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    How to bring a girl down gently...

    OK so I met up with this girl last night...I thought she was easy, since the first time we met we were grinding and making out all night in the middle of a bar. We went out and shot some pool, then rented a DVD and went back to her place. As soon as we got to the couch, we started at it. :D...
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    Can we move threads where women ask for advice...

    to Anything Else or something? I mean, I understand that some women are close friends with guys here and want their advice, and that's all well and good, but we've got a good number of threads popping up in the DJ Discussion forum which add no value to the forum. Sometimes these threads...
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    My confession:

    I have reached a point where I have to admit something to myself and everyone else...I SUCK WITH WOMEN. DJ philosophy or not, I cannot get or keep high-caliber women. I know a lot of noobs see me post and think, "Damn, he knows what he's talking about." I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING. Even with this...
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    Why do you pursue women?

    Simple question...why do you pursue women? Don't read anyone else's answer before you post your own. I'm just curious as to how different people respond.
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    Ever feel like you're falling back down to AFC-level? If so, what do you do?

    Just lately, I have NO idea where I'm going with women. I look back on my escapades during the summer/early fall. I managed to get some numbers from some fine girls, some interesting girls, and I lost my virginity. Now it seems like each night just gets worse than the last. Sometimes it...
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    "I'll call you right back," but no call. Next move?

    I finally grabbed my balls and called the blond chick I've been sweating...she answered and sounded excited to hear from me. We exchanged pleasantries, then she was like, "Can I call you right back in like 15-20?" and I told her yes. It's been about 3 hours. :( My first impulse is NEXT, but...
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    Working Kino into a date?

    Went on a date last night...I think it went pretty well. The girl's only like a 6-7 but she's fun to hang out with/talk to. I think I did alright...made good eye contact, good convo, C&F where appropriate...the one thing I couldn't seem to do was work kino/touch into the date. I mean, I gave her...
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