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    "If you want to get rid of a girl, act AFC."

    I think those of us who have been here long enough have learned to spot certain pieces of advice that, when someone offers them, it flags them as a Keyboard Jockey, someone who's read a lot of stuff on the forums and pieces of the "DJ Bible" and thinks he's a master of the female psyche. One...
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    The "If I wanted to..." story

    Anyone can claim to be beautiful if they avoid mirrors. What I'm talking about here is the typical trap that I believe a lot of you fall into on this forum, the one that, last night, I realized just how far *I* had fallen into. You know how it is...you're struggling with a woman/some women...
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    In a heavy pickup environment, how do you get an attractive girl to listen to you?

    This is something I've noticed in bars, clubs, etc...this site and other sites are really good at detailing how to proceed with a woman once you have an audience, once you've "engaged her and she's engaged you back," as DD says. I seem to have some decent success with women once they're actually...
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    Best article I've seen in a while: Date Other Women!!

    http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip337.htm I read this and I found it to be SO true it's not even funny. It seems like every time I "get back into the game" and start to date a couple women, I'll inevitably start to favor one and drop contacts with the others, but as soon as I do, the one starts...
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    A few questions about dealing with women in teh club...

    I went to this place last night...it was kind of a cross between a club and a lounge. It got me asking a few questions: 1) The "lounge" area of this place was pretty cool, except they were pumping the dance music full-blast. Maybe I don't "get it," but I would think they'd turn the music up...
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    Making things "official"....

    Is anyone else here getting TIRED OF HEARING PEOPLE TALK ABOUT THIS BULLSH!T?? There is NOTHING official in romance...this is one of the first things you should learn. Romance and romantic relationships are constantly growing, changing, evolving, dying, etc...talking about an "official"...
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    Change ISPs?

    The problem with the forum taking a while to load pages was gone, but now it's come back. It's taking a good while to load up pages from here. I'm not sure if it's the amount of bandwidth or what, but I've never seen another forum take this long to serve pages. Others have told me they've been...
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    That HB10 you're chasing...

    ...is NOT an HB10!! From now on, no one here is permitted to talk about an "HB10" they're trying to hook up with unless they also attach a picture for us to verify that she is, indeed, an HB10. Chances are she's not, and that's usually part of your problem.
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    DJ crisis...I'm torn between the "DJ" lifestyle and the "normal" lifestyle.

    Those of you who know me know that occasionally in the process of my personal development I fall into one of these "funks" where I feel like just taking a mind-dump of how I feel right now in the hopes that other people can empathize, offer advice, or even learn something. I know some of you are...
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    WHo's the tool?

    This may be interesting to you, may not be. Gave me some insight, anyway. :o squirrels000: I'm wondering what I should do about this girl I've been seeing when I get home. squirrels000: I mean, we've been going out, but I'm not sure I wanna keep seeing her at this point. squirrels000...
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    Should I bang this girl?

    Okay...here's the deal: Back when I was on my "stripper kick" (which ended badly, as some of you may remember), I met this dancer in one of the strip clubs in B-more. I bought a lapdance from her, wasn't really thinking about trying to "DJ" her or anything at the time. Then as I was leaving...
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    squirrelz...

    There's a guy on under the name "squirrelz." He hasn't done any real harm, but he's dragging up just about every post I've ever made. I think you already have someone on top of it cuz a lot of them are locked. Feel free to lock all my old posts if it shuts him up. Thanks. :)
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    The "Red Flags" list...

    That Freakazoid Screening thread got me thinking...it might be a good exercise for everyone to post examples of red flags they've seen from girls. In other words, things she said, did, talked about, things you've seen or heard from/about them that may indicate that they're somehow NOT a good...
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    Oral sex on a girl...STD potential?

    I've actually had intercourse with 3 women (up from last year's total of "zero", thanks SoSuave) and I've always used good protection, namely latex condoms with spermicide. On the other hand, I've fooled around with a bunch of girls, up to and including going "down there." Probably about 5 or...
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    Do you worry about your "skillset" declining if you don't use it often??

    If you don't get laid in a long time or aren't dating someone for a while, do you worry your skills in attracting and seducing women will get sloppy? I seriously haven't met a woman in a while that I've REALLY been into, but I've had opportunities for relationships/sexual encounters with...
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    If she's got a man (or is otherwise indisposed to date, DO NOT WAIT...

    Here is one of the biggest misconceptions among AFCs and junior DJs alike...that if a woman is "taken" you should WAIT and be her friend, without showing any romantic interest, until the day comes along when she breaks up with him. And that when that day comes, you should suddenly switch on the...
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    Give users authority to delete their own threads...

    so stuff like this: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=439649#post439649 Doesn't happen. It's awkward when you try to delete a thread and it doesn't let you and you have to "zero it out".
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    Presence...

    I think if there's anything I lack in big-time, it's presence. I'm 6'5 and big-shouldered, but I tend to remain quiet and not have much presence when I enter a room. I'd like to be one of those people who when he enters a room, everyone notices something is different. Is it just a matter of...
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    Calling women out on their BS...

    I've been non-confrontational all my life. I've avoided fights not so much because of fear of losing (I've gotten my ass whooped before), but because of "bad blood" being possible between me and a person or group of people. I also back down from a lot of arguments because I don't want people to...
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    Strange time in my life...losing faith in women.

    I'm not sure what it is...it could be a reactionary impulse by my social conditioning, but the last couple weeks, my "DJ skills" have absolutely crumbled. I'm starting to lose faith in women. My last couple romantic encounters have been with: -A 22 year old "dancer" who was sexually...
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