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    Censor "AFC"

    This word is used too often as a retarded label. It's a carry-over from ASF and it seems like people use it as an exact polar opposite to everything "Don Juan". But I think people throw it around too liberally. "OMG that's so AFC!" The thing is that "AFC" stands for Average Frustrated...
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    If a woman gives you a bull**** excuse for not going out...

    ...is there a good way to respond where you might recover, or does it mean she's pretty much not interested? Usually when that happens I just say "OK", hang up, and never call her again. But this happens often with girls I thought I vibed with. Am I missing something here? Is this some kind...
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    Let's talk about EGO

    How often do you see threads like this: "I've improved myself, but women still don't want me." "I feel like the 'prize', but women don't seem to recognize it." "I'm ****y, I'm no longer a pushover, but it's NOT WORKING!" "HELP!" There's an old movie/book/whatever that used to be...
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    It's been about a year since I first really started feeling "DJ"..and I don't anymore

    It was about a year ago that I first started really feeling like I was getting the hang of women. I could go out to a bar and pull two or three numbers in the same night, from women telling me they hoped I wasn't a "player". I had girls waiting to hear from me back home while I was at a club at...
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    How long do you wait for a girl to be comfortable with sex?

    I know some of the n00bs will be like, "Man that's so AFC!! You should be able to f**k her on the first night or you're just a loser!" But the truth is, the BETTER women will wait a while before they "put out", so to speak. Not for any reason besides that they just don't want to be "sluts" and...
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    I don't know how I got so jaded... (VENT)

    The last couple of women I've dealt with have just left me jaded. Women who show high interest level when I meet them, give up the number readily, and then never answer the phone/call back when I call them. Women who I've gone out with before, had a great, intimate time, then they just start...
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    SHUT DOWN the forum...

    Not shut it down completely, but disable ANY new posts or replies for like, a month or so. There are too many people on the forums who are using them as their sole social outlet, rather than as a place to discuss meeting and attracting women. I'm a member on several forums and it seems like...
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    Color scheme

    I dunno...I just think the blue, gray, and white is kinda sickly. Both on the main page AND on the forum. Maybe you should try changing it up? Maybe some warmer colors...something darker and easier on the eyes. The old main page was easy on the eyes and comfortable to read. The new one...
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    What the hell should I do with this girl??

    OK I'm supposed to be going out with this girl tonight, but I have no idea what the **** to do with her. I suggested shooting pool, but she doesn't like that, the only movie I really wanted to see she said she saw and hated...so I told her to just meet me at my place and we'll go get something...
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    If you "act AFC"...

    ...you should NOT feel worried about how you f'ed it up with this girl or concerned whether she's still into you or whether you "still have a shot." You should be disappointed in yourself for acting AFC. Get it out of your head that "not being a chump" is nothing more than a tool for...
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    Should I presume?

    I've met this girl IRL for the first time last night. We've chatted some on AIM and we were talking about going to Atlantic City this weekend, but she wanted us to meet first. Well...after the night was over, she still (enthusiastically) wants to go there with me. The night ended with a nice...
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    STD testing??

    Those of you who are screwing around a lot, where do you go for STD testing? I haven't been with that many women and I don't consider myself "at risk" for anything, but I was wondering whether that's something you can get done through your primary doctor or whether you need to visit a special...
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    In a bar/club...number close right away or wait until later?

    When you're in a club or something, and you start talking to a chick, and you decide to split ways (just because you don't want to spend the whole night hanging with one person in one place), should you number-close there, or wait until you bump into her later that night? What have you guys...
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    OK we can stop now with the "player mentality" vs "relationship mentality"...

    Enough is enough. People keep insisting that somehow looking for a long-term relationship with women requires a completely DIFFERENT set of skills and ideas than being a "player" and having one-night sex or f-buddy relationships with women. The two are NOT diametrically opposed, people. In...
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    Talking to a girl who's constantly "under attack"?

    Went out last night to a popular bar district in Baltimore and checked out a new place on a tip from a friend. Probably one of the hotter places I've been to around here. Lots of "hotties", at least by Baltimore standards. Didn't really make too many moves but just flirted around a little bit...
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    What do you do to overcome social anxiety?

    Just curious how people on here overcome social anxiety...particularly when approaching women, but also in general. It's something that's proving difficult for me to do. You can know all the Don Juan skills in the world, but if you get nervous about actually using them, they don't do you much...
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    Afraid of being hurt?

    Read this. This is taken from another forum I'm on. No names...not sure if this is considered "intimate", but I think it's something that you guys would benefit from seeing. Girl: My question: Her reply: Just something to think about. :)
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    Remove swordfish

    The guy is spamming the discussion forum with hundreds of posts from some speed seduction manual he found somewhere.
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    Natural (non-drug) ways of curing depression?

    When I say "natural," I don't mean medications that aren't man-made, **** like ginseng and that kind of crap. I'm just talking about things you can do in life to kick a bout of depression. I already exercise at least 3-4 times a week. Any other tips?
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    How the hell did I completely revert to my former super-AFC self??

    I've been reading this SoSuave and ASF crap for about 2 years now. About a year and a half ago was when I first started taking it seriously. Suddenly I was hooking up with girls, getting phone numbers, making out with them...about two months ago I was getting numbers from all over the place, had...
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