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    Give 'er the boot?

    You act like you want to continue seeing her, yet you completely frequented her for sex! I really don't see how Sofomore didn't make it clear to you already: she clearly put you in a powerless decision, she flakes and the to add insult to injury she makes you agree to a contract of sexual...
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    Should I try to make people like me?

    (introvert as well) most people suck though. why waste your precious time and energy lowering yourself to communicate with such plebians? find a quality group of like-minded friends and the rest will fall into place. Your friends are a secure base from which you can depart (alone, or with...
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    Give 'er the boot?

    You're losing out on potential booty by wasting your time with this flaky broad. Multiple day dates completely ruins the seduction for women. You killed it for her. Where YOU get your fix by seeing her, SHE gets her fix by the thought of you when you're NOT seeing her. How selfish of you!
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    Is it worth having a GF these days?

    Date around. Women who like you will try to tie you down into a relationship, its inevitable. Either way, you lose power when you enter it. Much of modern man's power to women can be found in his mystery, and you become much less mysterious when you're in a monogamous relationship. You could...
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    girlfriend talked to guy she used to hook up with

    Given the degree of which you're upset at her and this guy, it seems like this guy is pretty alpha and high value. She probably lusted for him harder, if she gave up more to him sooner too. If you really think you can keep her interest level in you high, continue to hang out with her...
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    girlfriend talked to guy she used to hook up with

    If she's not talking to him anymore, why is this bothering you? I think nismo would say case closed on this one. There's not much more to get over other than that she removed an attractive a*shole from her life.
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    girlfriend talked to guy she used to hook up with

    You aren't being controlling or jealous. You are being a completely rational human being in wanting this guy out of her life. He's a disrespectful guy who hooked up with her, and she shouldn't be talking to him anymore. But your rationality completely misses its mark in the world of women. I...
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    Crossing the line from assertive to needy

    This advice is spot on. Find some way to stimulate her **** during the interaction and you're golden, assuming she's already turned on. This could be done dancing at a club grinding or positioning your leg or your **** (through pants) in between her legs. You can tell this "legging" of a girl...
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    Her Place or Yours

    This happens to me all the time. Most of the time when I go out to clubs and bars, it's in the city of SF or Santa Cruz which requires relatively long drives. Because I don't have a car, I have to ride up with a friend. The main problem with me going to HER place is that in the morning I'd...
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    Her Place or Yours

    On bills, 50/50. And I like to switch off her place or my place, if I'm seeing the girl more than once. The problem with going back to YOUR place is that it's usually hard to convince the girl to leave because she wants more sex, whereas you can leave her place on your own will. Do know that...
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    The Walking Dead (that's a metaphor for this)

    Is this just a huge coincidence or are you in a really small social circle? If its the latter, get out of it as soon as possible. The words of a lying, cheating wh*re should fall on deaf ears and it pisses me off to read that they did that to you. Did you sue them for slander? How did the...
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    Still struggling after being in the pick up game for a while

    Get over those pickup fears and then we'll talk. Women have an evolved ability to distinguish weak men from strong
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    My Game Theory

    I agree! That's a cool way to think about game, and its funny the best ideas always happen in the shower :D Roissy is my favorite game writer too. I disagree your last point though. You can't "increase" a girl's value. Her value is completely tied into her looks (cf: Roissy & women's sexual...
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    first thread I guess. Here me out.

    You seem to have played it right dude. In fact, you might have played it so right she's trying to jump back into your arms. You say you don't like her anymore, so why not just delete the number and go radio silent for a week? She'll get the message and stop hitting you up. I'm guessing you...
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    Flakey FWB/FB - how to handle?

    How can you call them pessimists and then ask for "good ways to treat her like sh1t?" I don't think you actually understand what the above posters really mean. Calling them pessimists says to me that you aren't getting the point. Obviously, this girl isn't worth sh1t. If you were a high...
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    being a friend isn't always bad!

    To all of the DJ's claiming they f*ck their friends: Teach me your ways. Using the Greek classifications of love, I don't think these women really are your "friends" in the Platonic sense. Do they like you as a brother or a "bestie"? If so, I don't think you're fvcking. Either that or you...
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    Can sexual attractive be developed at any time?

    Yes. Women are more attracted to these types during menstruation, as those guys seem like better providers. But don't get them mistaken with men who truly understand women and can connect with them on an emotional level...they might SEEM feminine but they're about to be 8 inches deep in a...
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    How often should I flake?

    Hey guys, One of my plates hits me up a lot, abt 3x/week. I like hanging out with her but I know I need to go off radar sometimes. It's hard to come up with excuses because we both live on campus... I had already planned on hanging out with her this weekend, but tonight she wants to chill...
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    How does a DJ handle an external crisis?

    Gotta parrot sighsigh's #2. Go off the radar for a couple of days. It's mysterious, keeps her vagina tingling and allows you full freedom to work on yourself while avoiding accidental beta slipups.
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    What is your definition of "Alpha"?

    I actually read that definition a couple days ago, Chamber. It's my favorite. I think everyone, whether you agree with him or not, should read Roissy's. Its here: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/09/19/defining-the-alpha-male/ The flaw in Roissy's definition, which was addressed in...
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