first thread I guess. Here me out.

[Thane_Blackwood]

just a little story. Yeah my first thread but bear with me, even if this is poorly typed:crazy:

So about 6 months ago I met this girl I knew from when we were little kids. Somehow she got my number and we talked for a while and decided to meet up. We instantly hit it off and started a relationship. To make a long story short we were only together for two months until she broke up with me and got with some
dude. Mind you while she's with this guy she still texts me once in a while. A month later she breaks up with him. (found out later she goes through guys like an author goes through typing paper.) Months later don't hear anything from her until she starts calling me almost every day and she's pouring her heart out telling me how much she loves me. Kind of cared about her but I realized it wasn't for the right reasons. At this point I really don't give a crap anymore, really don't know why I keep answering the d*mn phone. So this whole ordeal here has been my first crack at a relationship even though it kind of wasn't one. So as a new comer to the game I just want a little advice on future endeavors I may get into.
Also If you want to put your 2cents into that crap paragraph I typed go ahead.

 

[LostAndConfused]

You seem to have played it right dude. In fact, you might have played it so right she's trying to jump back into your arms. You say you don't like her anymore, so why not just delete the number and go radio silent for a week? She'll get the message and stop hitting you up. I'm guessing you are still attracted to her, that's why you keep answering. That's doing you no service.

If you're able to separate a meaningless lay from a girl you're serious with, you can completely turn this girl into a FWB. I actually recommend it. You seem to be an alpha male for her...IE, the man she keeps running back to whenever her new man turns out to be beta. Next time she calls, tell her to "bring the movies." I guarantee you won't be watching anything. But if you can't make this distinction between a girl who will remain just a lay, don't bother continuing with this girl. Because you're new to the game, this might seem hard at first. But trust me, you get better at being selective with your women and determining which one would be a good pump and dump, which one would be a good fck buddy (IMO, this girl), and which one you should go all the way with.

Just remember, spin plates. There should be at least another girl either already in your rotation or being set up to enter it. This girl is the prototypical branch-swinger, use that as your cue to swing on some other branches yourself, Tarzan

good luck

 

[Thane_Blackwood]

Yeah, thanks man. Numbers been long deleted though. Guess I'll just stop communicating with her all together seeing as she never has anything to say and everything is becoming really pointless. About to go out of town soon, so I'm gonna use that time to sample some flavors if you know what I mean.