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  1. Nutz

    Women

    LOL, they do this thing called War of the Roses on the radio station here in DC/Metro. Girl calls up, says her BF of 3 months has been busy the last 2 weeks and they haven't been doing anything lately. Turns out she started driving by his house at night, essentially stalking him. On the show the...
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    Any short DJ's out there?? Issues with height!!

    Most tall women are insecure about their height. One of the first things out of my mouth is "Wow, look at how tall you are." or something to that effect. It makes her uncomfortably aware about her height, and then I follow it up with making her feel good about it and frame it as a positive, how...
  3. Nutz

    No excuse for this one...

    Don't dwell on it. Just envision what you'd do right the next time it happens so you train your brain on the good stuff and don't reinforce the bad. And yes, I've gotten brain lock like that as well. The usual approach I get is the good old "Do I know you?" I used to fumble around pretty bad...
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    Any short DJ's out there?? Issues with height!!

    I'm 5'6" and don't have problems. I get **** tested occasionally, but I bat them away like it's nothing because I'm unphased by them. FYI, Decibel, who writes the PUA Field Guide, is only 5'4" IIRC and he gets women just fine. FYI, I've been with plenty of tall chicks too. In fact my being...
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    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    I took it as him projecting the future situation as he referred to her as his wife, as in the kind of projection like... "I'll get the last laugh when I win the lotto and have a Ferarri and supermodel wife! You'll get what you have coming for picking on me all those years in high school you...
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    need advice. ex is back and wants to have sex

    Keep her as a bootycall. Don't get emotionally invested, because it looks like she isn't either. You're just an ex that she's banging on the side. No big deal. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if you're only one of several guys she's banging at the moment. It's not really that uncommon for chicks...
  7. Nutz

    wtf is up w/ this chic

    Make yourself scarce and see if she starts contacting you. If she just leaves you hanging then she's lost interest. And don't forget the 2 strikes rule.
  8. Nutz

    we've had sex for a month, now she wants to wait until marriage

    I endorse this post. This is also know as an early frame announcement and is an indicator of what she's going to be like in the future. DTB or show her the door and work her back into your lineup on YOUR terms.
  9. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    Bingo. Judge her on her actions, not her words. Do her actions continue to give you that bad vibe that caused this thread in the first place? Then there you go.
  10. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    In other words she's an AW that only cares about herself. As soon as you call her out on her BS she complains? Yeah, quality girl you got there. Seriously dude, forget what she saids and focus on her actions. Those are what you have to listen to. Everything that comes out of her mouth is...
  11. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    Such a wonderful relationship you have there with that girl you plan to marry. /sarcasm We've given you all the tools and advice you need to deal with your situation. We've shown you the door. It's up to you to walk through it.
  12. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    As I said in that thread, most ATTRACTIVE women have guy friends, many of which will have sex with her if the opportunity presents itself. That's just the way it is. What you really have to watch out for are the women who almost exclusively have male friends. They're the AWs who claim they...
  13. Nutz

    Women and their male friends

    LOL, he speaks from experience. All 16 years of it. :rolleyes: Seriously though, he does make a good point that you can't screw all the hotties out there and some you'll just have to settle for them making good inroads into hot social circles. From there you'll have social proof and be able to...
  14. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    He could have always just crashed it by A) not making a big deal about it when she didn't invite him along and play dumb like it's all normal. B) When she's out that night just call her up and say "Hey sweetie, I'm bored and want to meet up. Where's that party at? Basically invite himself...
  15. Nutz

    Girl I am seeing...HELP

    Time to NEXT her IMO. You may be able to lay down the law, but honestly she's going out and getting into the crazy stupid phase of her life now that she's got newfound independence that comes with getting a car. What you're experiencing is not unlike what happens when women get boob jobs...
  16. Nutz

    Why can't I get hotter chicks?

    Werd. Virgins have no business giving advice on sex & relationships. Reminds me of an old saying about never trust a bald barber.
  17. Nutz

    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    A) No woman I know would let it go that far. B) Studies have shown that when one person has suspicions the large majority of them were justified to question their partner's fidelity. People give off cues whether they know it or not and we all pick up on them subconsciously. This is called...
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    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    Anyone else see the contradiction there? lordson, you have to realize your relationship is NOT completely fine. Why do you think you're on here posting about this?! If things were completely fine you wouldn't be having these kinds of problems, and the answer to why that is so is your very...
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    Girlfriend is friends with another guy. Shlts me.

    I just don't understand this. Why is she going to the friend of a friend's party with the friend and NOT you. If there was ever a time you're supposed to go out with your gf this is it. You don't ask for permission, you just go. If she doesn't understand that then she's either a moron or is...
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    A woman rants on Craigslist...

    True. I learned that quote way before getting into the community and only use it now in jest. The reality is that it's the embodiment of scarcity mentality. If you are that hard up for action you'll take anything you can get, then you've got bigger problems than bad sex.
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