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That my friend is called a limiting belief. Of course it won't work for you, you've already talked yourself out of it working, therefore you'll always fail. May as well say, "I can't hit a baseball so I'll never try". Of course you can with a little practice. Some people need more than others...

That's still a cold approach son. Just because you got an approach invitation doesn't change the fact you've never met her before. And anyone can have success with cold approach. It's the foundation of pickup. It takes some balls to do it, but after you get a couple hundred approaches under...

She's either really busy and/or an emergency just popped up, or she's flaking out on you. Most likely it's the latter. When this happens you have to stop chasing. If she's actually interested then she'll call you at some point.

Disillusionment is probably the best way to explain how I felt. I figured some women fell for guys that played them and others were too smart for that. Now I know better and have shed the veil of social programming and see things for what they are. Attraction isn't a choice and if you hit the...

Simple response: "I don't have that kind of money." For most people that's the truth.

All men should strive to have the best women. Why settle for anything less? I understand why guys settle for less than perfection, but that sort of low value behavior is so far out of my reality now that feel really bad for guys that do settle. The worst is when guys I thought were high value...

The Field will teach you everything you need to know. However, you can learn must faster with a roadmap. I suggest the PUA Field Guide, Magic Bullets, and/or The Venusian Arts handbook. I haven't read the DJ bible yet, so that may be a good start as well. Whatever you do, don't read so much...

If it wasn't worth repeating, I wouldn't have posted it. Also, your post is trollish and lacks value. I suggest looking inward and working on your inner game. There's no reason besides low self-esteem for lashing out and tearing down others to feel better about yourself. Be a 10 instead of a...

For starters you holding back is an excuse to no escalate. At a minimum you need to kino and should escalate that into passionate kissing sooner rather than later if you want her thinking of you sexually and as a romantic interest. As for the that conversation. Wow. You lost a load of value...

Opened fine, but lingered on it too long. Need to transition into flirty banter/attraction material and move things forward.

All 3 are on this page: http://pickuppodcast.com/blogv2/tag/art-of-charm/ They're episodes 50, 53, and 54. Just scroll down until you find them. If they roll off that page as they add more podcasts either go back a couple pages or check out these individual links in the blog: Value Part 1...

Congrats. You both were 7s and he backed down to a 6. Had he held his ground you probably would have ended up in a fight. That's the two most common outcomes of when 7s face off. Again, listen to those pickup podcast episodes on Value. If you haven't listened to them yet you're doing...

This one is for the keyboard jockeys... If you have posted more on pickup forums than opened sets, turn off the computer and start meeting people. Seriously. The field is the best instructor there is. Go out there and socialize. If you get stuck, that when it's time to crack open a book or...