The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    I actually encountered something new

    I usually give advice, so asking for it is a little weird. I guess this was bound to happen sooner or later though. About a month or so ago I met a woman at a meetup.com bar crawl. We hit it off, made out a bit, and decided to keep in touch. We went out the following Friday for dinner and...
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    Bank robbing is "not as bad" for women?

    Typical liberal feminist propaganda. This is how they work.
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    questioning a decision in made 1.5 years ago

    You got your answer. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. I'd reach out since it's been a while, but you have to be prepared for the potential fallout. You need to decide which is worse: wondering what might have been, or finding out she's married with kids, loves her life and new guy...
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    Yahoo article wonders why hot young women go for old, ugly rockers

    I like Tom Leykis' take on it, which is basically what we're talking about. His version is that women are attracted to 3 things: Wealth Fame Power Build those 3 and you'll never have a lonely night. Every celeb, athlete, politician, and executive holds those 3 cards, hence why they can get...
  5. Nutz

    Is it me or...

    And the cycle contiunes.... http://tinyurl.com/aaxf36
  6. Nutz

    V-day pulls?

    Anyone actually get laid off a cold approach on v-day?
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    Incompetent Bartender Ruined my Chances with Girl!

    With stellar diplomacy and social grace. Getting all reactive and upset is a major turnoff, hence her blowing you off after all that went down.
  8. Nutz

    I messed up, twice!

    Okay. More updates. She texted me saying she's doing that bowling thing with a friend, I replied I already have plans but maybe later, and then she called and left this longwinded voicemail wanting me to go. I think I see what's happening which is the more I act disinterested the more she...
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    I messed up, twice!

    Update: Last friday was a disaster as I choaded out. Didn't hear from here until Monday, set up to go out Tuesday, but she flaked for a happy hour with a meetup group. Went cold since then so this morning I sent her the following: "Just saw a bird fly into a window. made me think of you ;p"...
  10. Nutz

    Not sure if I should break up with my girl

    I'll never seen it spelled out so clearly before. Props to WC2! :up:
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    Girlfriend acting stange

    Here's more to ponder on: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEbkRLBoXOg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkPgqtqAHdU <--- this is a good example of the waterworks tactic. The only thing I don't get about these videos, well, I understand why, but they go after the guys the chicks are cheating...
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    Girlfriend acting stange

    And there it is. This relationship is toast. All the rest is you guys delaying the inevitable. And to be honest you did good, right up until this part: Everything after that is you buying her the time she was looking for in trying to stall you to begin with. You just screwed yourself over with...
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    Girlfriend acting stange

    I didn't even watch the video and I agree. She's got her eye on some other guy(s). Since you went out with that girl she hates I'll assume you're not exclusive, so then it's not so cutthroat, but if you are supposed to be exclusive then she's priming the relationship for it's end.
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    Was I in the wrong?

    Nope. You stuck to your guns and that's actually going to be more attractive in the long run. I've seen it over and over again when the women make ultimatums like that and the guys tell them to GTFO/show them the door, the women will get pissed and leave, but eventually come back on the man's...
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    Recession hits the gold diggers hard...

    Very well spoken. I'm going to use that next time some hater complains about me not wanting to get with fatties that have a "nice personality".
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    New girl I'm seeing... And male friends.

    It's such a pessimistic point of view, but I've been burnt enough times to realize the truth in it. Sad isn't it?
  17. Nutz

    Recession hits the gold diggers hard...

    You completely missed the point of that post. Go back and read it again word for word. Don't skim or you'll miss it again.
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    New girl I'm seeing... And male friends.

    I think I was 23 when something happened to me that was almost exactly the same, only I was TDY for a 2 month class. My gf went to a party, met some guy, and all I'd hear about on the phone was stuff about this guy. I sensed something was wrong, but I didn't have the sense to cut it off. 2 weeks...
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    "Madonna syndrome: I should have ditched feminism for love, children and baking"

    I think this was what it all boiled down to: In other words, being equal is great, right up until it leaves you feeling empty inside. Women have different drives than men, having children being the main one. If they give that up and try to be penisless men as many feminists are prone to do...
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    New girl I'm seeing... And male friends.

    That's great advice....if you're banging her. Otherwise you're just going to frustrate yourself and end up one more orbiter she collects.
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