The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Study shows 50% of all women have a backup man they string along (sometimes for years )

    They can also be "grateful" for the attention and the ego-boost that comes from socializing with a more attractive man. Some of these women are meant to be kissed-off not on.
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    Study shows 50% of all women have a backup man they string along (sometimes for years )

    50% seems low, and it's definitely more than one backup. Women, especially these days with texting and so many different social media and messaging apps, are great at multi-tasking when it comes to keeping their bench and farm clubs in the mix.
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    Looks matter, a lot.

    What is the definition of "success"? I certainly have in the past, but the game has changed since most of my success was pre-Tinder (ie pre-app OLD). So I can't include myself in that. Right now I get messages and likes but I'm not actively using them. I keep my free accounts but I'm not...
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    She says I'm moving too fast

    He might be playing the long game since she said he was moving too fast.
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    Looks matter, a lot.

    I don't think anyone here is trying to say looks don't matter. That's acknowledged. But you have people with an extreme "black pill" mindset that basically any guy who isn't an international top male model in looks is doomed to inceldom. And that's really stupid and unhealthy. TBH, I've been...
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    This Corey Wayne guy

    Maybe you didn't really mean this but this sounds like you think men are just completely blank slates at the outset of every social interaction with a new person. Like the next time I talk to a woman, I'm a newborn 41 year-old just dropped into the situation with no mindset or experiences ever...
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    This Corey Wayne guy

    I'm going to have to disagree with you here (and part of your following post). In some cases women are even MORE likely to s-test more attractive men for reasons that go beyond looks. Looks matter a lot, but IMHO a lot of your posts are stuck on the idea that the only thing that matters is...
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    This Corey Wayne guy

    Just like reading thoughts from DJs on this forum, you have to take the info from "gurus" and evaluate it for yourself and decide how it fits in your life if at all. If you don't want to date single moms, don't. Sure, it helps when the information source walks the walk, but it's not always...
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    Always their 18th guy?

    I'm 41 and I've never asked. I've been told a few times, usually by women trying to claim that they have low numbers despite being so "hot" and obviously sexual/desirable. I guess as far as not asking, either I just didn't care or I figured it was relatively low due to the type of women I'm into...
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    Always their 18th guy?

    How old are these girls with 18?
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    My girlfriend wants to marry me just because I can provide for us

    You trained her to be this way. She knows you "can provide" because you've chosen to do that. if you've been with someone for 3 years and shown yourself to be a certain way she's there for that and going to expect that.
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    OLD matches asking for video calls!

    When in doubt, whip it out
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    Data that proves that OLD is a complete waste of time.

    This is one guy. it proves nothing. Tinder doesn't work for me tbh. I get likes and messages from women on other OLD, and I'm far from Chad. My matches on Match are more attractive than most of the chicks I get rejected by on Tinder, for example. FB dating is pretty easy to at least get matches...
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    Not doing it right

    I don't want a wife. I had one; I met her online 15 years ago. I've talked before about how pre-marriage I was strictly LTR. Those happened because women approached me at work, mostly. My cousin just got married. They met off Bumble. I have a friend who met his GF 2 years ago on Tinder. I know...
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    Yesterday sloots are todays good deal

    Yep, even that one I want to say 8 out of the 10 she claimed "tricked her" into something, lol. I thought it was funny her number didn't change in the time we lost touch over several months and there were a couple dudes she was "just talking to" or "we only played video games hehe" which later...
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    Yesterday sloots are todays good deal

    I had an acquaintance who used to brag that she had a "low number" of 10 in her mid 20s. For awhile she would recycle previous "abusive" FWBs, supposedly because she wanted to keep her number low. I'm pretty sure she more than doubled it during the COVID era.
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    Do you think that so many men being without women is fueling the live-in-car social trend?

    I have a friend who lived in his car, not due to being "without women" but because his LTR kicked him out of "her" house and he had no other options (temporarily). He went on Facebook Dating and found a new house.
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    Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

    Good point. I was probably lumping in PUA/redpill to an extent and for me I guess it doesn't really matter for my point. What I meant by "going backwards" is that I see a lot of these guys talking about being players through their 20s and maybe most of their 30s, and then "settling down" and...
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    After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

    Interesting, isn't it? Did feel like you should've been this close to getting just about any woman you wanted, but instead you were getting none? That's what I felt like, and I think it was 100% a vibe thing - like projecting that defeated (and maybe a little bitter, maybe a little too...
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    Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

    I don't. I've already been married. I see life in reverse from a lot of PUA types. Also only see my SMV going up, at least for a long while. I see some discussion of players just throwing in the towel and saying "well, everyone wants to settle down at some point, pair bond, whatever, might as...
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